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Mysl\u00edte, \u017ee byste se asi slo\u017eily?<\/p>\n
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Tak\u00e9 si to mysl\u00edm.<\/p>\n
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Ka\u017ed\u00e1 \u017eena, kter\u00e1 by\u0165 jednou slo\u017eit\u00fdm obdob\u00edm t\u011bsn\u011b po porodu pro\u0161la, v\u00ed, jak nesm\u00edrn\u011b citliv\u00fdch, emo\u010dn\u011b vypjat\u00fdch a n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00fdch je on\u011bch zhruba \u0161est t\u00fddn\u016f.<\/p>\n
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Jak stra\u0161n\u011b vd\u011b\u010dn\u00e1 je za ka\u017ed\u00e9 pohlazen\u00ed, pozornost, ocen\u011bn\u00ed, pomoc, oporu a hlavn\u011b projevenou l\u00e1sku.<\/p>\n
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Jak citliv\u011b reagujeme v tuhle dobu na sebemen\u0161\u00ed odchylku, probl\u00e9m, emo\u010dn\u00ed nap\u011bt\u00ed mnoh\u00e9 v\u00edme.<\/p>\n
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Proto je \u0161estined\u011bl\u00ed postaveno jaksi zvl\u00e1\u0161\u0165 v \u017eivot\u011b \u017eeny, proto je mu p\u0159ikl\u00e1d\u00e1n takov\u00fd v\u00fdznam jak l\u00e9ka\u0159i, tak psychology.<\/p>\n
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A bylo to tak v\u017edycky.<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Okol\u00ed n\u00e1s v\u011bt\u0161inou \u0161anuje, \u0161patn\u00e9 zpr\u00e1vy se nesd\u011bluj\u00ed, \u010derstv\u00e1 maminka je p\u0159\u00e1teli, rodinou a zn\u00e1m\u00fdmi udr\u017eov\u00e1na v takov\u00e9m milosrdn\u00e9m vakuu, kter\u00e9 je naprosto pochopiteln\u00e9 u miluj\u00edc\u00edho a alespo\u0148 trochu empatick\u00e9ho okol\u00ed.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n A kdy\u017e ne empatick\u00e9ho a miluj\u00edc\u00edho, tak minim\u00e1ln\u011b slu\u0161n\u00e9ho, mysl\u00edc\u00edho, pr\u016fm\u011brn\u011b inteligentn\u00edho.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Tedy obecn\u011b lidmi, kte\u0159\u00ed vedle jmenovky nemaj\u00ed cedulku \u201etot\u00e1ln\u00ed, bezcitn\u00e1, lhostejn\u00e1 hrouda\u201c!<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Stran v\u011bci z \u00favodu \u010dl\u00e1nku, kterou jsem si v dne\u0161n\u00ed rann\u00ed k\u00e1v\u011b neodpustila, je nutn\u00e9 podotknout, \u017ee partner, kter\u00fd takovou v\u011bc ud\u011blal, m\u00e1 mo\u017en\u00e1 v hlav\u011b vlo\u010dkovou ka\u0161i, mo\u017en\u00e1 mu ji zatemnila po\u017eit\u00e1 promile, mo\u017en\u00e1 cokoli\u2026 ka\u017edop\u00e1dn\u011b f\u00e9rov\u00e9 to nen\u00ed.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Patrn\u011b bych takovou v\u011bc sv\u00e9mu partnerovi neodpustila.<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Brala bych to jako \u00fader pod p\u00e1s. Kdybych se n\u011bco takov\u00e9ho dozv\u011bd\u011bla, vedle toho, \u017ee je velice t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9 to v\u016fbec v takov\u00e9m stavu ust\u00e1t, asi by to pro m\u011b bylo z\u00e1sadn\u00ed.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n KDYBYCH SE TO DOZV\u011aD\u011aLA!!!<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Neum\u00edm si p\u0159edstavit \u010dlov\u011bka, kter\u00fd by matku \u010derstv\u011b po porodu natolik nen\u00e1vid\u011bl, kter\u00fd by byl natolik bezp\u00e1te\u0159n\u00ed, zl\u00fd a bezcitn\u00fd, aby j\u00ed v\u016fbec takovou informaci, i kdyby o n\u00ed v\u011bd\u011bl a m\u011bl pro ni i d\u016fkazy, v\u016fbec sd\u011bloval.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n \u010clov\u011bk vybaven\u00fd jen procentovou emo\u010dn\u00ed inteligenc\u00ed, tohle prost\u011b neud\u011bl\u00e1.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Z d\u016fvod\u016f ryze lidsk\u00fdch.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Takov\u00fd \u010dlov\u011bk toti\u017e v\u00ed, \u017ee jakkoli je mu t\u0159eba jedn\u00e1n\u00ed patera proti mysli, bude p\u0159eci t\u00edm, komu nejv\u00edc, fat\u00e1ln\u011b a stra\u0161liv\u011b ubl\u00ed\u017e\u00ed, ta \u017eena.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n Ta, kter\u00e1 prakticky nen\u00ed p\u0159edm\u011btem jeho z\u00e1jmu.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Nebo ano?<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Nebo byl \u010dl\u00e1nek, t\u00fdkaj\u00edc\u00ed se pana P\u00edsa\u0159\u00edka, kter\u00fd sepsal, opat\u0159il videi a ve\u0159ejn\u011b vydal \u010dlov\u011bk s n\u00e1lepkou v\u00fd\u0161e, nam\u00ed\u0159en c\u00edlen\u011b proti on\u00e9 \u010derstv\u00e9 mamince?<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Pak se t\u00e9 osob\u011b z\u0159ejm\u011b d\u00edlo poda\u0159ilo.<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n S nejv\u011bt\u0161\u00ed pravd\u011bpodobnost\u00ed, je ona pan\u00ed psychicky na dn\u011b. Pokud o t\u011bchto v\u011bcech nev\u011bd\u011bla, um\u00edm si p\u0159edstavit, jak stra\u0161n\u011b j\u00ed je.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Jak te\u010f \u010del\u00ed soucitn\u00fdm pohled\u016fm, slov\u016fm, ale tak\u00e9 \u00fa\u0161klebk\u016fm, proto\u017ee zl\u00fd \u010dlov\u011bk st\u00e1le \u017eije, jak nev\u00ed, co m\u00e1 d\u011blat d\u0159\u00edv, jestli se starat o miminko, nebo bre\u010det, nebo p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161let co d\u00e1l, nebo dumat, zda sv\u00e9ho partnera opustit, odpustit, jak s n\u00edm mluvit a o \u010dem\u2026<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Klidn\u011b se jej\u00ed sv\u011bt mohl zhroutit jako dome\u010dek z karet. <\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n \u2026 do toho pravd\u011bpodobn\u011b koj\u00ed, nesp\u00ed a te\u010f je\u0161t\u011b z\u0159ejm\u011b i pl\u00e1\u010de.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Mo\u017en\u00e1 m\u011bl partner chvilku, kter\u00e9 bude hodn\u011b dlouho, ne-li roky litovat.<\/p>\n Mo\u017en\u00e1 to ani za to nest\u00e1lo.<\/p>\n Patrn\u011b to citov\u011b ani nic neznamenalo.<\/p>\n S ur\u010ditost\u00ed ho to mrz\u00ed a jist\u011b by byl \u0161\u0165astn\u00fd, kdyby se to jeho pan\u00ed nikdy nedozv\u011bd\u011bla.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Asi by to tak i bylo.<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Minim\u00e1ln\u011b by se to nedozv\u011bd\u011bla v dob\u011b, kdy\u017e je v \u0161estined\u011bl\u00ed.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Mohli prost\u011b fungovat a t\u0159eba by se to u\u017e nikdy neopakovalo.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Mo\u017en\u00e1 m\u00e1 pan P\u00edsa\u0159\u00edk svou \u017eenu moc r\u00e1d\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Mo\u017en\u00e1 je ale po l\u00e1sce a t\u0159eba po vztahu, kter\u00fd p\u0159es vskutku ne \u00fapln\u011b f\u00e9rov\u00e9 zakopnut\u00ed, mohl b\u00fdt hezk\u00fd a dlouhodob\u00fd.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Kdyby nebylo n\u011bkoho, kdo se bude te\u010f budit s bla\u017een\u00fdm pocitem a radost\u00ed nad t\u00edm, \u017ee n\u011bkomu s odpu\u0161t\u011bn\u00edm zkurvil, co se dalo.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n \u017de n\u011bkomu neskute\u010dn\u011b ubl\u00ed\u017eil.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n A \u017ee t\u00edm n\u011bk\u00fdm je mlad\u00e1 m\u00e1ma, kter\u00e1 p\u0159ed t\u0159emi t\u00fddny porodila.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n K\u00e9\u017e by se nad takov\u00fdmi lidmi, <\/strong>slovy jednoho z \u010dten\u00e1\u0159\u016f, krmi\u010di hyen,<\/em> nav\u017edy zav\u0159elo v\u00edko \u017eumpy, do kter\u00e9 pat\u0159\u00ed.<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Kdyby se ud\u011blovaly medaile za nejnelid\u0161t\u011bj\u0161\u00ed svinstva…<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n M\u00ed\u0161a K.<\/em><\/p>\n [sexy_author_bio]<\/p>\n Views: 13Um\u00edte si n\u011bkter\u00e1 p\u0159edstavit, \u017ee byste kr\u00e1tce, \u0159ekn\u011bme t\u0159i t\u00fddny po porodu, kdy\u017e m\u00e1 matka co d\u011blat, aby se udr\u017eela noh\u00e1ch, psychicky funk\u010dn\u00ed, kdy\u017e si na sebe zvykaj\u00ed s mimikem, kdy\u017e pot\u0159ebuje ka\u017ed\u00fd kousek opory a kdy\u017e v noci nesp\u00ed a jej\u00ed fyzick\u00e9 pochody se velmi n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u011b dost\u00e1vaj\u00ed do norm\u00e1lu, obdr\u017eela zpr\u00e1vu, p\u011bkn\u011b opat\u0159enou fotkami a […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[22],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9027","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-ranni-kavy"],"aioseo_notices":[],"aioseo_head":"\n\t\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t![\"15178YWQ.jpg\"](\"https:\/\/popelky.cz\/verze7-0\/text_img\/15178YWQ.jpg\")
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