{"id":8999,"date":"2014-09-11T10:16:11","date_gmt":"2014-09-11T08:16:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/popelky.cz\/pokus_sablona\/?p=8999"},"modified":"2018-12-27T10:16:42","modified_gmt":"2018-12-27T09:16:42","slug":"k-ranni-kave-mama-elisky-si-snad-nezaslouzi-lyncovat","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/popelky.cz\/verze7-0\/ranni-kavy\/k-ranni-kave-mama-elisky-si-snad-nezaslouzi-lyncovat.html","title":{"rendered":"K rann\u00ed k\u00e1v\u011b: M\u00e1ma Eli\u0161ky si snad nezaslou\u017e\u00ed lyn\u010dovat!"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Sledovali jsme to v\u010dera pomalu v\u0161ichni a mnoz\u00ed si neradi p\u0159ipou\u0161t\u011bli, je\u0161t\u011b p\u0159ed nalezen\u00edm mal\u00e9 Eli\u0161ky, cokoli nejhor\u0161\u00edho, by\u0165 to bohu\u017eel bylo pravd\u011bpodobn\u00e9. Je to neskute\u010dn\u011b smutn\u00e9, d\u011bsiv\u00e9. Ka\u017ed\u00fd si p\u0159eje co nejrychleji naj\u00edt zr\u016fdu, kter\u00e1 to provedla. Logicky. Pro\u010d ale lyn\u010dovat v diskuz\u00edch matku?<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Ka\u017ed\u00fd si um\u00ed \u017eiv\u011b p\u0159edstavit, jak to mus\u00ed b\u00fdt stra\u0161n\u00e9, ka\u017ed\u00fd m\u00e1 p\u0159edstavu, co by d\u011blal, co by \u0159\u00edkal, jak by se choval.<\/p>\n

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Ale kdo skute\u010dn\u011b v postaven\u00ed rodi\u010de v takov\u00e9 \u0161\u00edlen\u00e9 situaci byl?<\/p>\n

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Kdo m\u016f\u017ee odpov\u011bdn\u011b \u0159\u00edci, co by d\u011blal ve skute\u010dnosti?<\/p>\n

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\u017de m\u00e1ma toho ne\u0161\u0165astn\u00e9ho d\u011bv\u010d\u00e1tka psala na FB?<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Pros\u00edm, nemusela, ale v\u00ed n\u011bkdo spolehliv\u011b, co \u010dlov\u011bk v takov\u00e9m zoufalstv\u00ed ud\u011bl\u00e1?<\/p>\n

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Zda naopak nebude ps\u00e1t v\u0161ude, kde to jde, v\u00fdzvy o pomoc?<\/p>\n

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P\u0159eci od toho soci\u00e1ln\u00ed s\u00edt\u011b jsou \u2013 oslov\u00ed se maxim\u00e1ln\u00ed mno\u017estv\u00ed lid\u00ed.<\/p>\n

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\u017de \u0159ekla \u201ebylo j\u00ed dev\u011bt\u201c<\/em> d\u0159\u00edve, ne\u017e v\u011bd\u011bla, \u017ee hol\u010di\u010dka ne\u017eije?<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Tak jednak Eli\u0161ka m\u011bla 7.9. narozeniny, tedy j\u00ed skute\u010dn\u011b ned\u00e1vno bylo dev\u011bt a \u010dir\u00e1 psychologie tohle um\u00ed vysv\u011btlit.<\/p>\n

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Nav\u00edc m\u016f\u017ee j\u00edt o vy\u0159\u010denou vnit\u0159n\u00ed obavu, kterou ale ta m\u00e1ma okam\u017eit\u011b verb\u00e1ln\u011b pop\u0159ela t\u00edm, \u017ee uvedla, \u017ee j\u00ed asi n\u011bkde n\u011bkdo dr\u017e\u00ed.  Je to klasick\u00e9 pop\u00edr\u00e1n\u00ed vnit\u0159n\u00ed intuice.<\/p>\n

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A \u017ee dala d\u011bti na hl\u00edd\u00e1n\u00ed babi\u010dce?<\/strong><\/p>\n

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No dob\u0159e, nen\u00ed to \u00fapln\u011b standard, ale kdo v\u00ed, na jak dlouho? Kdo v\u00ed pro\u010d? Kdo v\u00ed, jak\u00e1 byla jej\u00ed situace?<\/p>\n

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V\u017edy\u0165 kolik \u017een je nuceno takto jednat t\u0159eba s ohledem na pr\u00e1ci.<\/p>\n

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I kdyby ta pan\u00ed byla chv\u00edli sobec, i kdybychom nesouhlasili \u2013 ned\u011bl\u00e1 to z n\u00ed vraha.<\/p>\n

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S takov\u00fdmi soudy je pot\u0159eba po\u010dkat. (a kdyby se n\u011bkdo pokusil argumentovat Kramn\u00fdm a postojem v\u011bt\u0161iny spole\u010dnosti od za\u010d\u00e1tku, tak on pros\u00edm vrahem je, jak se uk\u00e1zalo)<\/p>\n

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Asi by bylo divn\u00e9, kdybych na to nevylo\u017eila.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Vylo\u017eila jsem u\u017e r\u00e1no a soukrom\u011b jsem to \u0159e\u0161ila s n\u011bkter\u00fdmi z v\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

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Nikdy bych si nedovolila ve\u0159ejn\u011b p\u0159edem napsat, co tam je, ne\u017e tu malou na\u0161li.<\/p>\n

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Net\u011b\u0161\u00ed m\u011b to, ale bylo to tam.<\/p>\n

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Stejn\u011b, jako m\u00edsto, kde byla.<\/p>\n

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To se z karet, alespo\u0148 z Tarotu d\u00e1 odvodit, kdy\u017e se \u010dlov\u011bk pt\u00e1: \u201eco bych vid\u011bla z m\u00edsta, kde doty\u010dn\u00fd zrovna je\u201c.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

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Obdobn\u00fdm syst\u00e9mem se d\u00e1 zeptat na toho, kdo to ud\u011blal.<\/p>\n

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Chcete-li tedy:<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Tu\u0161\u00ed ta maminka, kdo to mohl ud\u011blat? <\/strong>\u2013 Existuje asi \u010dlov\u011bk z minulosti, kde j\u00ed cosi napadlo, proto\u017ee j\u00ed samotn\u00e9 p\u0159i\u0161el z\u00e1vadn\u00fd. Podle karet si ale p\u0159\u00edmo nemysl\u00ed, \u017ee by byl n\u011b\u010deho takov\u00e9ho schopen, by\u0165 mysl\u00ed, \u017ee nen\u00ed v po\u0159\u00e1dku, a \u017ee se na ni zlob\u00ed. (m\u016f\u017ee to b\u00fdt kdokoli, \u010dlov\u011bk pak nev\u011b\u0159\u00ed ani sousedovi)<\/em><\/p>\n

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Skoro bych se zkusila zam\u011b\u0159it p\u0159\u00edmo na toho \u010dlov\u011bka.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Podle karet a p\u0159edes\u00edl\u00e1m, \u017ee jsou to jenom karty, ale v\u00edm, \u017ee to budete cht\u00edt alespo\u0148 zkusit poodhalit:<\/p>\n

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Tedy bez z\u00e1ruky, \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e9 dogma.<\/p>\n

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Ten \u010dlov\u011bk:<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Nen\u00ed z toho m\u00edsta, ale m\u00e1 tam n\u011bkoho z rodiny, n\u011bkoho tam zn\u00e1, a zn\u00e1 to m\u011bsto<\/strong>. (mo\u017en\u00e1 tam bydlel, \u017eil, n\u011bkoho nav\u0161t\u011bvoval)<\/p>\n

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Je to \u010dlov\u011bk s Lunou. <\/strong>Tak\u017ee nen\u00ed \u00fapln\u011b v po\u0159\u00e1dku. M\u00e1 tam karty, kter\u00e9 mluv\u00ed o tom, \u017ee se s n\u011b\u010d\u00edm l\u00e9\u010dil, nebo l\u00e9\u010d\u00ed a ned\u00e1vno odn\u011bkud ode\u0161el, opustil n\u011bjak\u00e9 msto.<\/p>\n

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Mohl i ut\u00e9ct.<\/p>\n

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Je n\u011bjak omezen\u00fd zdravotn\u011b.<\/strong> Vedle toho, co jsem jmenovala \u2013 m\u016f\u017ee kulhat, nebo tak n\u011bco, ale omezen\u00ed zdravotn\u00ed tedy Viselec m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt t\u0159eba i nutnost n\u011bco dodr\u017eovat.<\/p>\n

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M\u00e1 vedle 3 disk\u016f tak\u00e9 omezuj\u00edc\u00ed karty<\/strong>, tak\u017ee bu\u010fto nepracuje, nebo ho vyhodili, nebo pracovat nem\u016f\u017ee, nechce\u2026<\/p>\n

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Vedle karty Hieros gamos (spole\u010dnost kontakty) m\u00e1 9 me\u010d\u016f.<\/strong> M\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt spole\u010densky vn\u00edm\u00e1n z\u00e1vadn\u011b, prost\u011b blb\u011b.<\/p>\n

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On s\u00e1m je psychicky nestabiln\u00ed,<\/strong> a\u017e skoro podivn\u00fd, \u017eije v jin\u00e9m sv\u011bt\u011b, ke kter\u00e9mu si m\u016f\u017ee dopom\u00e1hat.<\/p>\n

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Kdy\u017e jsem se d\u00edvala, jestli ho ta d\u00edvenka znala, m\u00e1m dojem, \u017ee ne.<\/p>\n

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Jeho v\u00fdb\u011br mi s 8 hol\u00ed p\u0159ijde sp\u00ed\u0161 rychl\u00fd, ale to m\u016f\u017ee znamenat cokoli.<\/p>\n

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Ka\u017edop\u00e1dn\u011b \u2013 bez karet jen logikou \u2013 on je bu\u010fto tak \u0161\u00edlen\u00fd, nebo je hodn\u011b zdaleka, kdy\u017e se nenam\u00e1hal to d\u011bv\u010d\u00e1tko schovat a podobn\u011b.<\/p>\n

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Mohlo mu to taky b\u00fdt jedno.<\/p>\n

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Mohl cht\u00edt, aby se na\u0161la.<\/p>\n

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Podle karet bych se klonila k tomu, \u017ee mu to bylo jedno, \u017ee nad t\u00edm neuva\u017eoval.<\/strong> I tady m\u00e1 Lunu, 3 poh\u00e1r\u016f, Slunce a vedle n\u00ed smrt a Bl\u00e1zna. Prost\u011b bez r\u00e1cia.<\/p>\n

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Jak\u00fd vztah m\u00e1 ten, kdo to ud\u011blal k mamince?<\/strong> \u2013 8disk\u016f (anal\u00fdza, pl\u00e1n), 5 poh\u00e1r\u016f (vylit\u00e9 poh\u00e1ry, n\u011bco chyb\u00ed), Luna (jin\u00e1 realita), \u010e\u00e1bel (je pudov\u00fd, je o sexu, je taky o podvodu) \u2026 nev\u00edm, ale m\u011b p\u0159ijde, \u017ee bu\u010fto \u017e\u00e1dn\u00fd (bez pl\u00e1nu), nebo naopak by si d\u011blal p\u0159edstavu, \u017ee ona m\u011bla b\u00fdt a nen\u00ed jeho. Ch\u00e1pu, \u017ee tohle je dvojak\u00e1 odpov\u011b\u010f, ale ono to dvoj\u00ed vysv\u011btlen\u00ed m\u00e1.<\/em><\/p>\n

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Zkusila jsem se zeptat, co bych vid\u011bla, kdybych byla na stejn\u00e9m m\u00edst\u011b, jako je v tuhle chv\u00edli ten, kdo to ud\u011blal:<\/strong><\/p>\n

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A na to jsem pou\u017eila troje karty, proto\u017ee to je d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9.<\/p>\n

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Tarot, Symbolon a Lenormand.<\/p>\n

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Vid\u011bla bych:<\/strong><\/p>\n

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\"15292Mjc.jpg\"<\/strong><\/p>\n

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M\u00edsto, kde pracuje a zdr\u017euje se hodn\u011b lid\u00ed<\/strong> (tarot)<\/p>\n

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\"15294MmE.jpg\"<\/p>\n

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M\u00edsto, kde jsou lid\u00e9 vy\u010derpan\u00ed, nebo n\u011bjak stresovan\u00ed a mo\u017en\u00e1 odpo\u010d\u00edvaj\u00ed tak\u00e9?<\/strong> (symbolon)<\/p>\n

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\"15293MjM.jpg\"<\/p>\n

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M\u00edsto, kter\u00e9 je \u00fa\u0159edn\u00ed, nebo n\u011bjak souvis\u00ed s vzd\u011blanost\u00ed a op\u011bt je to pracovi\u0161t\u011b.<\/strong> (Lenormand)<\/p>\n

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Napad\u00e1 m\u011b nemocnice nebo n\u011bco takov\u00e9ho, t\u0159eba.<\/p>\n

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Zdr\u017euje se, bydl\u00ed u nemocnice, je v nemocnici?<\/p>\n

V n\u011bjak\u00e9 l\u00e9\u010debn\u011b?<\/p>\n

Je to oddechov\u00e9 centrum, nebo je bl\u00edzko takov\u00e9ho m\u00edsta?<\/p>\n

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No, jsou to jenom karty, ale \u010dlov\u011bku to ned\u00e1.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Moc si p\u0159eji, aby ho co nejd\u0159\u00edve chytili.<\/p>\n

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A\u010d to mal\u00e9 \u017eivot nevr\u00e1t\u00ed, m\u016f\u017ee to zachr\u00e1nit \u017eivoty jin\u00fdch d\u011bt\u00ed.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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T\u00e9 mamce rad\u00edm, a\u0165 si zru\u0161\u00ed FB a ne\u010dte diskuze.<\/p>\n

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Reakce jsou od mnoh\u00fdch surov\u00e9 a mysl\u00edm, i velmi p\u0159ehnan\u00e9.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Mimochodem, v\u010dera dopoledne jsem to, co mi vy\u0161lo (voda, zv\u00ed\u0159ata, nap\u016fl opu\u0161t\u011bn\u00e1 budova) konzultovala s Kent\u00e1nkou a po\u017e\u00e1dala ji, aby se tak\u00e9 pod\u00edvala. Ona m\u00e1 karty, n\u011bjak\u00e9 jin\u00e9, co nezn\u00e1m.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Pravila, \u017ee vid\u00ed d\u0159evo a \u017ee ta hol\u010di\u010dka je bosa. <\/strong><\/p>\n

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Pak se na\u0161la boti\u010dka a pak mal\u00e1 Eli\u0161ka v lese. \"frown\"<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Kent\u00e1nko, jsi dobr\u00e1.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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M\u00ed\u0161a K.<\/em><\/p>\n

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Views: 29Sledovali jsme to v\u010dera pomalu v\u0161ichni a mnoz\u00ed si neradi p\u0159ipou\u0161t\u011bli, je\u0161t\u011b p\u0159ed nalezen\u00edm mal\u00e9 Eli\u0161ky, cokoli nejhor\u0161\u00edho, by\u0165 to bohu\u017eel bylo pravd\u011bpodobn\u00e9. Je to neskute\u010dn\u011b smutn\u00e9, d\u011bsiv\u00e9. Ka\u017ed\u00fd si p\u0159eje co nejrychleji naj\u00edt zr\u016fdu, kter\u00e1 to provedla. Logicky. Pro\u010d ale lyn\u010dovat v diskuz\u00edch matku?   Ka\u017ed\u00fd si um\u00ed \u017eiv\u011b p\u0159edstavit, jak to mus\u00ed b\u00fdt […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[22],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-8999","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-ranni-kavy"],"aioseo_notices":[],"aioseo_head":"\n\t\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t