{"id":6588,"date":"2011-08-01T10:45:15","date_gmt":"2011-08-01T08:45:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/popelky.cz\/pokus_sablona\/?p=6588"},"modified":"2018-11-01T10:46:11","modified_gmt":"2018-11-01T09:46:11","slug":"matkou-ve-ctyriceti-peti-proc-ne-ta-mama-je-moje","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/popelky.cz\/verze7-0\/rodina-a-drobotina\/matkou-ve-ctyriceti-peti-proc-ne-ta-mama-je-moje.html","title":{"rendered":"Matkou ve \u010dty\u0159iceti p\u011bti? Pro\u010d ne, ta m\u00e1ma je moje!"},"content":{"rendered":"

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V\u00edm moc dob\u0159e, \u017ee si t\u0159eba n\u011bkdo zaklepe na \u010delo a \u0159ekne si \u201cNa star\u00e1 kolena? To ani n\u00e1hodou\u201c. Zn\u00e1m ale jednu \u017eenu, kter\u00e1 v\u00a0tomto v\u011bku p\u0159ed dvaceti t\u0159emi roky porodila a pro m\u011b je to nejd\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed \u010dlov\u011bk na sv\u011bt\u011b. A je to moje m\u00e1ma. Nem\u011bla moc \u0161t\u011bst\u00ed na mu\u017ee. Prvn\u00edmu man\u017eelovi porodila dceru M\u00ed\u0161u a po p\u011bti letech se rozvedli. Dal\u0161\u00ed nepoveden\u00e9 man\u017eelstv\u00ed bylo s\u00a0druh\u00fdm mu\u017eem, s\u00a0n\u00edm\u017e m\u00e1 syna Jardu. Jej\u00ed druh\u00fd man\u017eel pil a podv\u00e1d\u011bl ji. I s\u00a0n\u00edm se za n\u011bjak\u00fd \u010das rozvedla. No a pak potkala m\u00e9ho t\u00e1tu\u2026\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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\u0158\u00edk\u00e1, \u017ee je to t\u0159et\u00ed nevyda\u0159en\u00e9 man\u017eelstv\u00ed, ale samoz\u0159ejm\u011b jen z\u00a0legrace.<\/p>\n

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T\u00e1ta byl o dvan\u00e1ct let mlad\u0161\u00ed a ned\u011blalo mu probl\u00e9m vz\u00edt si m\u00e1mu za \u017eenu i s\u00a0dv\u011bma d\u011btmi. Kdy\u017e p\u0159i\u0161la nejstar\u0161\u00ed M\u00ed\u0161a s\u00a0novinou, \u017ee m\u00e1ma bude babi\u010dkou, odpov\u011bd\u011bla j\u00ed, \u017ee ona bude sestrou.<\/p>\n

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Po roce man\u017eelstv\u00ed \u010dekala Alenu. <\/strong>
\nTo u\u017e m\u011bla \u010dty\u0159ic\u00edtku za sebou. Samoz\u0159ejm\u011b v\u011bd\u011bla, \u017ee nen\u00ed nejmlad\u0161\u00ed a hrozn\u011b se o miminko b\u00e1la, ale doufala, \u017ee bude v\u0161echno v\u00a0po\u0159\u00e1dku. Po n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00e9m t\u011bhotenstv\u00ed, kdy se m\u00e1ma b\u00e1la snad i pohnout se narodila Alena.<\/p>\n

Dal\u0161\u00ed d\u00edt\u011b u\u017e nepl\u00e1novala.<\/p>\n

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O to v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed p\u0159ekvapen\u00ed bylo, kdy\u017e po \u010dty\u0159ech letech zjistila, \u017ee \u010dek\u00e1 m\u011b.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

Te\u010f u\u017e to bylo, ale v\u00edce ne\u017e v\u00e1\u017en\u00e9 a m\u00e1ma p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161lela, jestli t\u011bhotenstv\u00ed je\u0161t\u011b riskovat. Dokto\u0159i m\u00e1m\u011b doslova nad\u00e1vali, jak m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt tak nezodpov\u011bdn\u00e1. V\u00a0jej\u00edm v\u011bku by pr\u00fd m\u011bla m\u00edt rozum a vychov\u00e1vat vnou\u010data. Jeden l\u00e9ka\u0159 ji dokonce natvrdo ozn\u00e1mil, \u017ee budu posti\u017een\u00e1, a \u017ee j\u00ed pr\u00fd ani nemus\u00ed odeb\u00edrat plodovou vodu.<\/p>\n

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Kdy\u017e jela tramvaj\u00ed z vy\u0161et\u0159en\u00ed dom\u016f, plakala. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Tehdy potkala d\u00e1vn\u00e9ho zn\u00e1m\u00e9ho. Rozru\u0161en\u011b mu vypr\u00e1v\u011bla svoj\u00ed situaci p\u0159esto\u017ee se asi deset let nevid\u011bli a on, tak mi to mamka vypr\u00e1v\u011bla, pravil: \u201cVyka\u0161li se na v\u0161echny chytr\u00fd doktory. M\u00e1\u0161 t\u0159i zdrav\u00e9 d\u011bti, to by v\u00a0tom byl \u010dert, aby to \u010dtvrt\u00e9 bylo n\u011bjak dementn\u00ed\u201c. M\u00e1ma si tehdy ut\u0159ela slzy a poslechla ho.<\/p>\n

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V\u00edt\u00e1n\u00ed ob\u010d\u00e1nk\u016f – tedy i mne<\/p>\n

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S\u00a0podporou v\u0161ech \u010dlen\u016f rodiny se u\u017e nenervovala. <\/strong>
\nA j\u00e1 se narodila. \u00dapln\u011b zdrav\u00e1 a s \u00a0norm\u00e1ln\u00ed porodn\u00ed v\u00e1hou. Kdy\u017e se vr\u00e1tila z\u00a0porodnice, po p\u00e1r dnech m\u011b pr\u00fd nalo\u017eila do ko\u010d\u00e1ru a \u0161la panu doktorovi uk\u00e1zat toho \u201edementa\u201c. V\u011bd\u011bla, ale moc dob\u0159e, \u017ee riskovala.<\/p>\n

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Nikdy jsem nem\u011bla probl\u00e9m s\u00a0faktem, \u017ee je mamka star\u0161\u00ed. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Sv\u011b\u0159ovala jsem se j\u00ed v\u017edy se v\u0161\u00edm. Tak, jako jin\u00e9 d\u00edvky. V\u011bd\u011bla o m\u00fdch l\u00e1sk\u00e1ch a i tr\u00e1pen\u00edch, v\u011bd\u011bla co d\u011bl\u00e1me venku s\u00a0kamar\u00e1dy, radila mi ve spoust\u011b v\u011bc\u00ed. Zat\u00edmco n\u011bkter\u00e9 holky by se sv\u00e9 m\u00e1m\u011b styd\u011bly \u0159\u00edci o sv\u00e9m \u201epoprv\u00e9\u201c j\u00e1 se j\u00ed bez z\u00e1bran sv\u011b\u0159ila.<\/p>\n

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Jedin\u00e9 co mi vadilo bylo, \u017ee n\u011bkter\u00e9 d\u011bti dok\u00e1zaly b\u00fdt zl\u00e9. <\/strong>
\nVyslechla jsem si, \u017ee m\u011b adoptovala babi\u010dka, nebo jsem byla pro n\u011b ta co m\u00e1 tu starou m\u00e1mu. Nejd\u0159\u00edv m\u011b to mrzelo.<\/p>\n

Zat\u00edmco jin\u00e9 maminky se l\u00ed\u010dily a chodily t\u0159eba tan\u010dit, moje mamka si p\u0159ivyd\u011bl\u00e1vala v\u0161ude mo\u017en\u011b k\u00a0d\u016fchodu, abych m\u011bla tak\u00e9 nejnov\u011bj\u0161\u00ed telefon, nebo zna\u010dkov\u00e9 oble\u010den\u00ed.<\/p>\n

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Rodi\u010de dnes \u017eij\u00ed v\u00a0dome\u010dku za Prahou a mamka se star\u00e1 o zahr\u00e1dku.<\/strong><\/p>\n

M\u00e1 \u0161est vnou\u010dat, ale nen\u00ed to takov\u00e1 ta babi\u010dka na hl\u00edd\u00e1n\u00ed. Vnou\u010data samoz\u0159ejm\u011b miluje a pom\u016f\u017ee, kdy je pot\u0159eba, ale rozhodn\u011b nen\u00ed rozhozen\u00e1 z\u00a0prvn\u00edho bobe\u010dku nebo prvn\u00edho zoubku. J\u00e1 ji ch\u00e1pu a jsem j\u00ed vd\u011b\u010dn\u00e1 za to, \u017ee se nerozhodla j\u00edt na potrat. Taky bych ne\u0161la.<\/p>\n

\"483ZTN.jpg\"Jsem i teta \"smile\"<\/p>\n

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U\u017e jen proto, \u017ee dnes v\u00edm, \u017ee kdyby se rozhodla jinak, nemohla bych v\u00e1m te\u010f ps\u00e1t, a tak\u00e9 \u0159\u00edct, \u017ee jsem zdrav\u00fd a spokojen\u00fd \u010dlov\u011bk.<\/p>\n

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D\u00edky, mami.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Pavla <\/em><\/p>\n

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