I v hlubok\u00e9 dosp\u011blosti st\u00e1le d\u011bl\u00e1me \u00fakony, kter\u00e9 nemaj\u00ed vysv\u011btlen\u00ed v na\u0161em norm\u00e1ln\u00edm b\u011b\u017en\u00e9m \u017eivot\u011b a nepramen\u00ed ze zku\u0161enosti nabran\u00e9 b\u011bhem \u017eivota. Jak to? Proto\u017ee si je pamatujeme z b\u0159\u00ed\u0161ka! Skoro to zn\u00ed magicky, ale je to \u010dir\u00e1 v\u011bda.<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div>\n <\/p>\n Odborn\u011b \u0159e\u010deno poch\u00e1z\u00ed n\u011bkter\u00e9 vzpom\u00ednky z prenat\u00e1ln\u00edho obdob\u00ed \u017eivota. Neodborn\u011b a \u010dist\u011b lidsky, od maminky z b\u0159\u00ed\u0161ka.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Podle sou\u010dasn\u00fdch psycholog\u016f, kte\u0159\u00ed se v t\u00e9to ot\u00e1zce vz\u00e1cn\u011b shoduj\u00ed s panem Freudem, je \u010dlov\u011bk tvor evidentn\u011b nejen konzervativn\u00ed, ale tak\u00e9 obda\u0159en\u00fd pom\u011brn\u011b slu\u0161nou podv\u011bdomou pam\u011bt\u00ed.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n D\u011bl\u00e1me si dob\u0159e a nev\u00edme o tom<\/strong><\/p>\n V moment\u011b, kdy\u017e se nap\u0159\u00edklad dostaneme do velik\u00e9ho stresu, kdy\u017e n\u00e1m n\u011bco tak zat\u00ed\u017e\u00ed psychiku, \u017ee se nedok\u00e1\u017eeme se situac\u00ed vyrovnat a ztr\u00e1c\u00edme schopnost odol\u00e1vat zat\u00ed\u017een\u00ed prost\u0159edky v\u011bdom\u00fdmi, ute\u010deme zp\u011bt.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Do nejv\u011bt\u0161\u00edho pocitu bezpe\u010d\u00ed, na jak\u00fd si vzpom\u00edn\u00e1me.<\/strong><\/p>\n K mamince, do jej\u00edho b\u0159\u00ed\u0161ka. Tohle prost\u0159ed\u00ed si tak dob\u0159e pamatujeme, \u017ee to v\u011bdce a\u017e p\u0159ekvapilo.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Pro\u010d mysl\u00edte, \u017ee d\u00edt\u011b se uklidn\u00ed, kdy\u017e s n\u00edm houp\u00e1me?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n Pro\u010d mysl\u00edte, \u017ee pr\u00e1v\u011b ur\u010dit\u00fd pohyb v ur\u010dit\u00e9m rytmu, jaksi kol\u00edbav\u00fd, je takov\u00fdm z\u00e1zrakem?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n Pro\u010dpak to asi n\u011bkter\u00e9 d\u011bti d\u011blaj\u00ed v post\u00fdlce dokonce samy sob\u011b?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Proto\u017ee prost\u011b to stejn\u00e9 je zak\u00f3dovanou vzpom\u00ednkou na stav, kdy\u017e byly v pohod\u011b a hlavn\u011b v bezpe\u010d\u00ed.<\/strong><\/p>\n V b\u0159\u00ed\u0161ku u maminky byla stabiln\u00ed teplota, nebyl tam hluk, proto\u017ee v\u0161echny zvuky dol\u00e9haly k u\u0161\u00edm tlumen\u011b.<\/p>\n Bylo tam p\u0159\u00edjemn\u00e9 p\u0159\u00edtm\u00ed, ale ne \u00fapln\u00e1 tma, sly\u0161eli jsme pravideln\u00fd tlukot jej\u00edho srd\u00ed\u010dka, jej\u00ed hlas a hlavn\u011b, p\u0159\u00edjemn\u011b to kol\u00edbalo ve stavu t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 bez t\u00ed\u017ee.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n No, kdo by se tam necht\u011bl vr\u00e1tit?<\/p>\n <\/p>\n D\u011bti v \u00fastavech, d\u011bti du\u0161evn\u011b posti\u017een\u00e9 i ment\u00e1ln\u011b posti\u017een\u00ed dosp\u011bl\u00ed<\/strong><\/p>\n se \u010dasto v sed\u011b k\u00fdvaj\u00ed a broukaj\u00ed si. <\/strong><\/p>\n V\u00edte pro\u010d? <\/strong><\/p>\n Ka\u017ed\u00fd psycholog v\u00e1m \u0159ekne, \u017ee d\u016fvodem je nedostatek l\u00e1sky.<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n U\u017e jste si n\u011bkdy v\u0161imli, \u017ee \u010dlov\u011bk se po pro\u017eit\u00e9m \u0161oku nebo mimo\u0159\u00e1dn\u011b z\u00e1t\u011b\u017eov\u00e9 situaci k\u00fdve a zav\u00edr\u00e1 o\u010di?<\/p>\n Pro\u010d tohle d\u011bl\u00e1 \u010dlov\u011bk ve strachu a beznad\u011bji?<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Proto\u017ee se vrac\u00ed.<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Jeho podv\u011bdom\u00ed se ho sna\u017e\u00ed uklidnit t\u00edm, \u017ee navod\u00ed situaci a stav, o kter\u00e9m je sk\u00e1lopevn\u011b p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010den\u00e9, \u017ee zabere.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n V\u011bdci d\u00e1le tak\u00e9 podle studie, kterou vydal britsk\u00fd \u010dasopis Medical osv\u011btlili i to, pro\u010d n\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed z n\u00e1s v ur\u010dit\u00e9m obdob\u00ed p\u0159i us\u00edn\u00e1n\u00ed vol\u00ed polohu schoulenou na boku s nohama p\u0159ita\u017een\u00fdma k t\u011blu a rukama pokr\u010den\u00fdma.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Poloha plodu.<\/p>\n Jak prost\u00e9.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n N\u011bkdo tak us\u00edn\u00e1 cel\u00fd \u017eivot, proto\u017ee se v t\u00e9to poloze prost\u011b c\u00edt\u00ed nejl\u00e9pe. <\/strong><\/p>\n Nen\u00ed divu, p\u0159ipom\u00edn\u00e1 mu dobu, kdy\u017e se ni\u010deho neb\u00e1l, kdy nem\u011bl starosti.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n N\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed z n\u00e1s se tak chovaj\u00ed p\u0159i zv\u00fd\u0161en\u00e9m zat\u00ed\u017een\u00ed. <\/strong><\/p>\n Nap\u0159\u00edklad v obdob\u00ed rozvodu, ztr\u00e1ty zam\u011bstn\u00e1n\u00ed a jin\u00fdch, za bd\u011bn\u00ed z\u00e1t\u011b\u017eov\u00fdch situac\u00ed.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Kdy\u017e jsme ne\u0161\u0165astn\u00ed, kdy\u017e m\u00e1me pocit ohro\u017een\u00ed, kdy\u017e s n\u00e1mi \u017eivot zato\u010d\u00ed tak, \u017ee ztr\u00e1c\u00edme p\u016fdu pod nohama, kdy\u017e pl\u00e1\u010deme od \u017ealu a tou\u017e\u00edme po osvobozen\u00ed, lehneme si a pl\u00e1\u010deme schouleni do klub\u00ed\u010dka.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n D\u011bl\u00e1 to za n\u00e1s na\u0161e podv\u011bdom\u00ed, kter\u00e9 se n\u00e1m sna\u017e\u00ed pomoci a odleh\u010dit.<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Je zaj\u00edmav\u00e9, \u017ee \u010dlov\u011bk je schopen si vzpomenout na obdob\u00ed, kdy\u017e se je\u0161t\u011b nenarodil, \u017ee?<\/strong><\/p>\n Podle zm\u00edn\u011bn\u00e9 studie je mo\u017en\u00e9 se uklidnit i hudbou, kterou milovala a \u010dasto poslouchala na\u0161e maminka, kdy\u017e n\u00e1s \u010dekala.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Nev\u00edme to na v\u011bdom\u00e9 \u00farovni.<\/strong><\/p>\n Pozn\u00e1me to ale na sob\u011b, proto\u017ee n\u00e1m t\u00f3ny budou z nevysv\u011btliteln\u00fdch d\u016fvod\u016f mil\u00e9.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Schv\u00e1ln\u011b jsem se na tohle p\u0159ed \u010dasem sv\u00e9 maminky zeptala.<\/strong><\/p>\n Zanotovala mi starou p\u00edsni\u010dku.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Vzpomn\u011bla jsem si i na melodii!<\/strong><\/p>\n Bylo mi dob\u0159e a m\u011bla jsem pot\u0159ebu se k n\u00ed p\u0159itulit a z\u016fstat tak.<\/p>\n M\u00e1 to neuv\u011b\u0159itelnou s\u00edlu.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Zp\u00edv\u00e1 se tam o trempovi, kter\u00fd potkal v lese hol\u010di\u010dku, o kter\u00e9 si myslel, \u017ee se ztratila, ale ona pat\u0159ila k jin\u00e9mu trempovi. Maminka mi \u0159ekla, \u017ee mi ji u jej\u00edho b\u0159\u00ed\u0161ka zp\u00edval i m\u016fj tat\u00ednek.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Zkusila jsem to i na moje holky s p\u00edsni\u010dkou \u201eP\u00e1r havran\u00edch cop\u00e1nk\u016f\u201c, kterou jsem jim zp\u00edvala, kdy\u017e jsem je nosila.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Tv\u00e1\u0159ily se bla\u017een\u011b.<\/p>\n Kdy\u017e jsem se ptala na pocit, \u0159ekly \u201ezvl\u00e1\u0161tn\u011b p\u0159\u00edjemn\u00fd\u201c.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n V\u00e1\u017en\u011b to funguje.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Zp\u00edvejte sv\u00e9mu miminku v b\u0159\u00ed\u0161ku, abyste mu jednou, a\u017e bude m\u00edt probl\u00e9my, mohly takhle nen\u00e1padn\u011b, jednodu\u0161e, ale zd\u00e1 se efektivn\u011b pomoci.<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Jak neuv\u011b\u0159iteln\u011b siln\u011b je v n\u00e1s.<\/strong><\/p>\n Ani\u017e bychom si to vlastn\u011b do d\u016fsledku uv\u011bdomovali. Ka\u017ed\u00e1 na\u0161e bu\u0148ka je kouskem z n\u00ed. <\/strong><\/p>\n A ka\u017edou bu\u0148kou si ji pamatujeme.<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n „MAMINKA“<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Michaela <\/em><\/p>\n [sexy_author_bio]<\/p>\n Views: 9 I v hlubok\u00e9 dosp\u011blosti st\u00e1le d\u011bl\u00e1me \u00fakony, kter\u00e9 nemaj\u00ed vysv\u011btlen\u00ed v na\u0161em norm\u00e1ln\u00edm b\u011b\u017en\u00e9m \u017eivot\u011b a nepramen\u00ed ze zku\u0161enosti nabran\u00e9 b\u011bhem \u017eivota. Jak to? Proto\u017ee si je pamatujeme z b\u0159\u00ed\u0161ka! Skoro to zn\u00ed magicky, ale je to \u010dir\u00e1 v\u011bda. Odborn\u011b \u0159e\u010deno poch\u00e1z\u00ed n\u011bkter\u00e9 vzpom\u00ednky z prenat\u00e1ln\u00edho obdob\u00ed \u017eivota. 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