Ka\u017ed\u00fd rok se to om\u00edl\u00e1, ka\u017ed\u00fd rok je to aktu\u00e1ln\u00ed. Ka\u017ed\u00fd rok p\u0159ich\u00e1z\u00ed z\u00e1stupy psycholog\u016f s osv\u011btou a ka\u017ed\u00fd rok s n\u00ed p\u0159ich\u00e1z\u00edme tak\u00e9 my. Proto\u017ee ka\u017ed\u00fd rok jsou tu v souvislosti s vysv\u011bd\u010den\u00edm pr\u016f\u0161vihy, mnohdy fat\u00e1ln\u00ed. A i d\u016fvody jsou st\u00e1le stejn\u00e9, zbyte\u010dn\u00e9 a smutn\u00e9. V moment\u011b, kdy\u017e se d\u00edt\u011b nevr\u00e1t\u00ed dom\u016f s vysv\u011bd\u010den\u00edm, m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt pozd\u011b na rodi\u010dovskou sebereflexi. <\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div>\n <\/p>\n Pakli\u017ee rodi\u010d \u010di rodi\u010de cel\u00fd rok motivovali sv\u00e9ho potomka zp\u016fsobem, kter\u00fd v den posledn\u00edho \u0161koln\u00edho roku vy\u00fastil v \u00fat\u011bk, nebo n\u011bco hor\u0161\u00edho, n\u011bkdo tu selhal.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n A d\u00edt\u011b to nen\u00ed.<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Ka\u017edou chv\u00edli nevych\u00e1z\u00edme z \u00fadivu, jak\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem jsou n\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed lid\u00e9 v\u016fbec schopni vychov\u00e1vat sv\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b. Po jak\u00e9 rovin\u011b se vine syst\u00e9m jejich p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161len\u00ed, hodnotov\u00fd \u017eeb\u0159\u00ed\u010dek a priority.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Jakou formu komunikace vol\u00ed n\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed s dosp\u00edvaj\u00edc\u00edm \u010dlov\u011bkem.<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n T\u011b\u017eko ch\u00e1peme, \u017ee je n\u011bkdo schopen \u0159\u00edci \u010dtrn\u00e1cti i mlad\u0161\u00edmu d\u00edt\u011bti \u201ejestli dostane\u0161 na vysv\u011bd\u010den\u00ed tohle a tamto, tak rad\u011bji necho\u010f domu\u201c <\/em>a pak zkrou\u0161en\u011b sed\u011bt na policejn\u00ed slu\u017eebn\u011b a mluvit o tom, jak si vzniklou situaci neum\u00ed vysv\u011btlit.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n Kdy\u017e ka\u017ed\u00fdm rokem v tuhle dobu \u010dtu zpr\u00e1vy a sebevra\u017ed\u00e1ch \u0161kolou povinn\u00fdch d\u011bt\u00ed, chodila bych a rozd\u00e1vala facky.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n I kdy\u017e, \u010dasto ji\u017e nen\u00ed t\u0159eba fackovat. Ji\u017e se stalo.<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Takov\u00fd rodi\u010d, jen\u017e m\u011bl se sv\u00fdm \u017eivotem pl\u00e1ny, kter\u00e9 nenabyly uskute\u010dn\u011bn\u00ed, a m\u00edsto vysn\u011bn\u00e9 medic\u00edny se te\u010f zab\u00fdv\u00e1 \u00faklidem prostor n\u00e1dra\u017en\u00ed haly, se mnohdy sna\u017e\u00ed naprojektovat sv\u00e9 nespln\u011bn\u00e9 p\u0159edstavy do sv\u00e9ho potomka.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Drbe ho tak dlouho, a\u017e d\u00edt\u011b n\u00e1sledkem dojmu, \u017ee zklamalo, dotla\u010d\u00ed na pokraj zhroucen\u00ed nebo okraj st\u0159echy kostela.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n A p\u0159i tom o nic nejde!<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Jestli dr\u017e\u00ed kru\u017e\u00edtko jako prase kost, a\u0165 dostane do ruky t\u0159eba rodnou hroudu!<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Pokud m\u00e1 d\u00edtko probl\u00e9m si p\u0159edstavit krychli a r\u00fdsovac\u00edmi pot\u0159ebami si ponejv\u00edce ohroz\u00ed oko, mo\u017en\u00e1 je jeho talent ukryt v jin\u00e9 oblasti.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n T\u011b\u017eko z n\u011bho bude projektant, ale zn\u00e1-li v\u0161echny druhy hub, ned\u011bl\u00e1 mu probl\u00e9m rozeznat ol\u0161i od jasanu a tr\u00e1v\u00ed dlouh\u00e9 hodiny bloum\u00e1n\u00edm po luk\u00e1ch, byl by z n\u011bho mo\u017en\u00e1 dobr\u00fd student botaniky.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Anebo prost\u011b v\u016fbec nen\u00ed studijn\u00ed typ. Nebo do sv\u00e9ho uv\u011bdom\u011bn\u00ed je\u0161t\u011b nedo\u0161lo, nebo ho to nebav\u00ed, nebo m\u00e1 n\u011bjak\u00e9 sv\u00e9 probl\u00e9my, (ano, d\u011bti m\u00edvaj\u00ed probl\u00e9my a z jejich pohledu jsou velk\u00e9) nebo cokoli, ale herdek je to na\u0161e d\u00edt\u011b.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Pozorujme sv\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b s l\u00e1skou a pochopen\u00edm, ne p\u0159es to, co jsme do jeho budoucnosti naprojektovali, kde bychom ho nejrad\u011bji vid\u011bli a co z n\u011bho MY chceme m\u00edt.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Proto\u017ee jsme pln\u011b odpov\u011bdn\u00ed nejen za to, v co vyroste a dosp\u011bje, ale hlavn\u011b ZDALI V\u016eBEC!!<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Ne\u017e se d\u00edvat na \u201evyklepan\u00e9ho\u201c absolventa \u010cVUT, to rad\u011bji na \u0161\u0165astn\u00e9ho zahradn\u00edka.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Jsou notori\u010dt\u00ed nicned\u011bla\u010di, kte\u0159\u00ed \u201ena to maj\u00ed\u201c, ale pot\u0159ebuj\u00ed dohled, ale tak\u00e9 d\u011bti, kter\u00e9 i p\u0159i nejv\u011bt\u0161\u00ed snaze nevyplod\u00ed to, co jejich nadan\u00ed spolu\u017e\u00e1ci.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Trestat takov\u00e9ho \u017e\u00e1\u010dka za to, \u017ee nem\u00e1 zn\u00e1mky, na kter\u00e9 nem\u00e1 potenci\u00e1l, je nejen nef\u00e9r, ale je to trestuhodn\u00e9.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Strach z t\u011blesn\u00e9ho trestu, p\u0159\u00edpadn\u011b ze slzi\u010dek uron\u011bn\u00fdch milovanou maminkou (citov\u00e9 vyd\u00edr\u00e1n\u00ed je rovn\u011b\u017e prima model) m\u00edv\u00e1 ka\u017edoro\u010dn\u011b na sv\u011bdom\u00ed alarmuj\u00edc\u00ed mno\u017estv\u00ed trag\u00e9di\u00ed.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n A \u201ejenom\u201c \u00fat\u011bk z domova je tady tou lep\u0161\u00ed variantou.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n \u201eTv\u016fj bratr je premiant, tak pro\u010d ty jsi blbec?\u201c<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Poukazov\u00e1n\u00edm na kvality jednoho d\u00edt\u011bte a shazov\u00e1n\u00edm vlastnost\u00ed toho m\u00e9n\u011b \u00fasp\u011b\u0161n\u00e9ho mu rodi\u010d vy\u0161\u0161\u00ed v\u00fdkon nezajist\u00ed. Maxim\u00e1ln\u011b vyprodukuje zakomplexovan\u00e9ho jedince s probl\u00e9mem s vlastn\u00ed hodnotou, kter\u00fd by je\u0161t\u011b nav\u00edc nejrad\u011bji vid\u011bl studen\u00e9ho vlastn\u00edho sourozence.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n A p\u0159itom t\u0159eba dok\u00e1\u017ee v\u011bci, o kter\u00fdch se onomu premiantovi ani nesn\u00ed! Holt ale nejsou o prosp\u011bchu.<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Nav\u00edc, prvot\u0159\u00eddn\u00ed pam\u011b\u0165 a schopnost odcitovat odstavec z u\u010debnice je\u0161t\u011b nemluv\u00ed o p\u0159irozen\u00e9 inteligenci, a o lidsk\u00fdch kvalit\u00e1ch u\u017e teprve ne.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n A proto\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Ne\u017e rodi\u010d ode\u0161le sv\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b s pr\u016fhledn\u00fdmi deskami v ruce a slu\u0161iv\u00fdm kost\u00fdmkem pro ortel na kusu pap\u00edru, nech\u0165 zv\u00e1\u017e\u00ed, s jak\u00fdmi slovy ho vyprov\u00e1z\u00ed.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n U\u017e tak bude nerv\u00f3zn\u00ed, mo\u017en\u00e1 i stresovan\u00e9, aby nezklamalo, aby se t\u00e1ta nezlobil, aby maminka neplakala, aby se rodi\u010de nepoh\u00e1dali \u2026 u\u017e tak toho na n\u011b bude hodn\u011b\u2026<\/p>\n <\/p>\n \u010cas nelze vr\u00e1tit zp\u011bt!<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n \u201eD\u011bti jsou nastaveny jednat impulzivn\u011b a jejich rozpozn\u00e1vac\u00ed schopnosti i p\u0159irozen\u00fd pud sebez\u00e1chovy b\u00fdvaj\u00ed ve stresov\u00fdch situac\u00edch zna\u010dn\u011b sn\u00ed\u017een\u00e9. Strach z n\u00e1sledk\u016f p\u0159ede\u0161l\u00e9ho tady p\u0159ekryje racion\u00e1ln\u00ed hodnocen\u00ed n\u00e1sledk\u016f sou\u010dasn\u00e9ho.<\/em><\/p>\n <\/p>\n D\u00edt\u011b reaguje na pocit selh\u00e1n\u00ed je\u0161t\u011b v\u011bt\u0161\u00edm selh\u00e1n\u00edm.<\/em><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Je nutn\u00e9 nevyvolat afektivn\u00ed reakci. To lze pouze podsunut\u00edm v\u011bdom\u00ed, \u017ee doma rovn\u00e1 se v bezpe\u010d\u00ed. Apelujeme na citliv\u00fd a rozumn\u00fd p\u0159\u00edstup. Ka\u017edoro\u010dn\u011b \u0159e\u0161\u00ed l\u00e9ka\u0159i mnoho d\u011btsk\u00fdch pokus\u016f o sebevra\u017edu a letos tomu patrn\u011b nebude jinak. V\u011bkov\u00e1 hranice se p\u0159i tom smutn\u011b sni\u017euje,\u201c<\/em> \u0159\u00edkaj\u00ed l\u00e9ka\u0159i z psychologick\u00e9 poradny \u2013 krizov\u00e9ho centra v pra\u017esk\u00fdch Bohnic\u00edch.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n D\u00edt\u011b nemus\u00ed pat\u0159it mezi \u017e\u00e1ky, kte\u0159\u00ed jsou schopni samostatn\u011b pojmout obsah u\u010debn\u00edch osnov, a p\u0159esto m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt velice inteligentn\u00ed.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n V \u017eivot\u011b m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt \u00fasp\u011b\u0161n\u00fd i ten, kter\u00fd sotva prolezl z\u00e1kladkou. <\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Zachr\u00e1nit dvacet lidsk\u00fdch \u017eivot\u016f, projevit se jako charaktern\u00ed \u010dlov\u011bk, vyznamenat se po lidsk\u00e9 rovin\u011b, b\u00fdt kvalitn\u00edm a dobr\u00fdm \u010dlov\u011bkem, b\u00fdt milovan\u00fd a obdivovan\u00fd m\u016f\u017ee i vyu\u010den\u00fd zedn\u00edk.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n A NAOPAK!<\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n P\u0159eji za sebe i redakci v\u0161em \u017e\u00e1k\u016fm hodn\u011b \u0161t\u011bst\u00ed, ani jednu slzi\u010dku, hodn\u011b pochopen\u00ed a spr\u00e1vnou mamku s ta\u0165kou! <\/p>\n Michaela Kudl\u00e1\u010dkov\u00e1<\/em><\/p>\n [sexy_author_bio]<\/p>\n Views: 22 Ka\u017ed\u00fd rok se to om\u00edl\u00e1, ka\u017ed\u00fd rok je to aktu\u00e1ln\u00ed. 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