{"id":6112,"date":"2011-09-29T11:43:36","date_gmt":"2011-09-29T09:43:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/popelky.cz\/pokus_sablona\/?p=6112"},"modified":"2018-10-21T11:44:09","modified_gmt":"2018-10-21T09:44:09","slug":"svet-je-plny-lharu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/popelky.cz\/verze7-0\/vztahy\/svet-je-plny-lharu.html","title":{"rendered":"Sv\u011bt je pln\u00fd lh\u00e1\u0159\u016f!!!"},"content":{"rendered":"

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M\u00e1te taky ten pocit? Sv\u011bt je pln\u00fd lh\u00e1\u0159\u016f <\/strong>a podvodn\u00edk\u016f, nem\u016f\u017eete nikomu v\u011b\u0159it ani <\/strong>\u201edobr\u00fd den\u201c ba ani nos mezi o\u010dima a za <\/strong>ka\u017ed\u00fdm t\u0159et\u00edm stromem \u010d\u00edh\u00e1 n\u011bkdo, <\/strong>kdo v\u00e1m tou\u017e\u00ed svl\u00edknout kalhotky nebo se <\/strong>pod\u00edvat do kabelky.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u017de s n\u011b\u010d\u00edm takov\u00fdm se ned\u00e1 \u017e\u00edt?<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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No, asi ned\u00e1, ale v\u011b\u0159te mi, i takov\u00ed chod\u00ed mezi n\u00e1mi.  Hl\u00e1\u0161ka z Homolkovic fam\u00edlie, \u017ee \u201em\u00e1mo, jak ty na tom sv\u011bt\u011b m\u016f\u017ee\u0161 v\u016fbec bejt!\u201c je sice vtipn\u00e1, ov\u0161em, pokud s n\u011bk\u00fdm podobn\u00fdm sd\u00edl\u00edte v\u00edc, ne\u017e filmov\u00e9 pl\u00e1tno, st\u00e1v\u00e1 se to docela z\u00e1sadn\u00edm vztahov\u00fdm probl\u00e9mem.<\/p>\n

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D\u016fvod, pro\u010d se tito lid\u00e9 st\u00e1vaj\u00ed nebo jsou pr\u00e1v\u011b takov\u00ed, podez\u00edrav\u00ed a neust\u00e1le okol\u00ed obvi\u0148uj\u00edc\u00ed z nekalost\u00ed jsou v podstat\u011b dva:<\/p>\n

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  1. Sami jsou notori\u010dt\u00ed lh\u00e1\u0159i a <\/strong>podle sebe soud\u00ed ostatn\u00ed<\/strong><\/li>\n
  2. Jejich chov\u00e1n\u00ed nut\u00ed okol\u00ed, <\/strong>aby jim lhalo (nap\u0159\u00edklad nep\u0159\u00edjemnou manipulac\u00ed<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    Pokud na pravdiv\u00e9 a up\u0159\u00edmn\u00e9 informace n\u011bkdo reaguje poni\u017euj\u00edc\u00edmi pozn\u00e1mkami, ironi\u00ed a kritikou \u010di se chov\u00e1 agresivn\u011b nebo p\u0159ecitliv\u011ble, ka\u017ed\u00fd norm\u00e1ln\u00ed \u010dlov\u011bk p\u0159i dal\u0161\u00edm styku s n\u00edmm, bude m\u00edt velk\u00e9 cuk\u00e1n\u00ed rozm\u00fd\u0161let, co sd\u011bl\u00ed a co rad\u011bji ne. \u010c\u00edm\u017e minimalizuje riziko, \u017ee bude zran\u011bn. Ale vlastn\u011b se u\u010d\u00ed lh\u00e1t. Za\u010darovan\u00fd kruh!<\/p>\n

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    \"1472MWU.jpg\"Jsem v pr\u00e1vu!<\/strong><\/p>\n

    No jasn\u011b, takov\u00fd \u010dlov\u011bk je samoz\u0159ejm\u011b v pr\u00e1vu! Dle sv\u00e9ho \u00fahlu pohledu. On b\u00fdv\u00e1 t\u00edm nejlep\u0161\u00edm a chyb m\u00e1 pom\u00e1lu,\u010di t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e9. A pokud n\u011bjak\u00e9 m\u00e1, jsou to chyby, kter\u00e9 mu mohou b\u00fdt ku prosp\u011bchu, kdy\u017e je budou ostatn\u00ed respektovat. M\u016f\u017ee si libovat v n\u011bjak\u00e9 extr\u00e9mn\u00ed form\u011b chov\u00e1n\u00ed (hypochondrie, kleptomanie), ale ON nen\u00ed t\u00edm vin\u00edkem.<\/p>\n

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    Je to okol\u00ed, kter\u00e9 m\u016f\u017ee za to, \u017ee se tak \u010di onak chov\u00e1. A z toho d\u016fvodu je t\u0159eba tuto jeho odchylku respektovat.<\/p>\n

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    \u010clov\u011bk je tedy v pr\u00e1vu, ale je d\u00edky tomu \u0161\u0165astn\u00fd? Libuje si ve sv\u00fdch soudech a sv\u00e9 vlastn\u00ed spravedlnosti, kter\u00e1 <\/strong><\/em>pracuje rychlost\u00ed mblesku, \u017ee \u010desk\u00e1 justice mus\u00ed blednout a omdl\u00edvat z\u00e1vist\u00ed.<\/strong><\/em>
    \nZ t\u00e9to sv\u00e9 soudcovsk\u00e9 stolice m\u00e1 \u00fa\u017easn\u00fd p\u0159ehled a v\u00ed v\u0161e nejl\u00edp. Nakolik mu to opravdu p\u0159in\u00e1\u0161\u00ed pocit \u0161t\u011bst\u00ed, \u010di jen pocit moci nad ostatn\u00edmi, m\u016f\u017eeme jen spekulovat.<\/p>\n

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    Pat\u0159\u00edte-li k takov\u00e9 skupin\u011b lid\u00ed, pak pou\u010den\u00ed je jednozna\u010dn\u00e9 \u2013 zamyslete se sami nad sebou. Okol\u00ed je jen va\u0161\u00edm
    \nzrcadlem a i kdy\u017e ten proces zrcadlen\u00ed m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt n\u011bkdy p\u011bkn\u011b slo\u017eit\u00fd, tak tady je jednozna\u010dn\u00fd.<\/p>\n

    Va\u0161e chov\u00e1n\u00ed vyvol\u00e1v\u00e1 reakci okol\u00ed<\/strong><\/em>.<\/p>\n

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    Kdy\u017e l\u017ee rodina\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n

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    \u2026 bol\u00ed to asi nejv\u00edce. Od realitn\u00edho makl\u00e9\u0159e, nagelovan\u00e9ho jehovisty \u010di osobn\u00edho bank\u00e9\u0159e tak n\u011bjak podv\u011bdom\u011b \u010dek\u00e1te, \u017ee ur\u010dit\u00e9 procento toho, co \u0159\u00edk\u00e1 je p\u00f3za, nepravda \u010di dokonce prachsprost\u00e1 le\u017e.
    \nOd sv\u00fdch rodi\u010d\u016f \u010di d\u011bt\u00ed o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1te, \u017ee budou ve vysok\u00e9m procentu mluvit pravdu.
    \nD\u016fvod v\u011bt\u0161\u00edho pocitu zrady a zran\u011bn\u00ed pramen\u00ed z toho, \u017ee t\u011bmto lidem se i sami v\u00edce otev\u00edr\u00e1te a d\u016fv\u011b\u0159ujete jim.<\/p>\n

    Pokud tedy nejste ji\u017e d\u00e1vno chyceni ve vzorci \u010d. 2 a sice, \u017ee v z\u00e1jmu sebeobrany a zachov\u00e1n\u00ed sv\u00e9ho vlastn\u00edho
    \nzdrav\u00ed, rozumu a soukrom\u00ed, rad\u011bji l\u017eete.<\/p>\n

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    Jak takovou situaci \u0159e\u0161it?<\/strong><\/p>\n

    N\u011bkdy takov\u00e9 b\u00fdvaj\u00ed tch\u00fdn\u011b \u010di matky, n\u011bkdy sourozenci, n\u011bkdy kolegov\u00e9 v pr\u00e1ci a n\u011bkdy lid\u00e9 \u00fapln\u011b jin\u00ed.
    \nManipul\u00e1to\u0159i, energeti\u010dt\u00ed up\u00ed\u0159i a neomyln\u00e9 v\u0161ev\u011bdouc\u00ed osoby, kter\u00e9 nikdo nedocen\u00ed v jejich \u00fa\u017easn\u00fdch schopnostech p\u00e1trat po pravd\u011b. Vlastn\u011b ani nemus\u00ed p\u00e1trat, jim p\u0159ijde pravda na jazyk v b\u0159itk\u00e9 vte\u0159in\u011b!<\/p>\n

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    \u0158e\u0161en\u00ed m\u00e1te na v\u00fdb\u011br dv\u011b:<\/p>\n

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    1. Sna\u017e\u00edte se pou\u017e\u00edt <\/strong>asertivitu, st\u00e1le dokola vysv\u011btlovat o sv\u00fdch vlastn\u00edch pravd\u00e1ch, kter\u00e9 budou ov\u0161em br\u00e1ny patrn\u011b jako p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 r\u016f\u017eov\u00e9 a kyti\u010dkov\u00e9 a hlavn\u011b neuv\u011b\u0159iteln\u011b blb\u00e9 a naivn\u00ed\u2026. A t\u00edm se st\u00e1le dokola vy\u010derp\u00e1vat.<\/strong><\/li>\n
    2. Smutn\u00e9, ale \u00fa\u010dinn\u00e9. Na <\/strong>minimum omezit styk s takov\u00fdmi lidmi, sna\u017eit se proti nim energeticky \u201eobrnit\u201c a nep\u0159esv\u011bd\u010dovat je o sv\u00e9 pravd\u011b. Tam, kde nen\u00ed div\u00e1k, nen\u00ed herc\u016f<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

      P.S.: Jo a je\u0161t\u011b jednu v\u011bc m\u016f\u017eete <\/em>zkusit. P\u0159itak\u00e1vat, p\u0159\u00edpadn\u011b je\u0161t\u011b p\u0159idat, aby byl doty\u010dn\u00fd p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010den o pravd\u011b.<\/em>
      \nFuj, to jsem ale z\u00e1ke\u0159n\u00e1!!!<\/em><\/p>\n

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      Nicm\u00e9n\u011b je to jedin\u00fd \u2013 le\u010d dosti zbab\u011bl\u00fd zp\u016fsob \u2013 jak p\u0159e\u017e\u00edt v\u00edce \u010di m\u00e9n\u011b obs\u00e1hl\u00fd vynucen\u00fd \u010das s takovou osobou\u2026<\/p>\n

      Renata<\/em><\/p>\n

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      Views: 32 M\u00e1te taky ten pocit? Sv\u011bt je pln\u00fd lh\u00e1\u0159\u016f a podvodn\u00edk\u016f, nem\u016f\u017eete nikomu v\u011b\u0159it ani \u201edobr\u00fd den\u201c ba ani nos mezi o\u010dima a za ka\u017ed\u00fdm t\u0159et\u00edm stromem \u010d\u00edh\u00e1 n\u011bkdo, kdo v\u00e1m tou\u017e\u00ed svl\u00edknout kalhotky nebo se pod\u00edvat do kabelky. \u017de s n\u011b\u010d\u00edm takov\u00fdm se ned\u00e1 \u017e\u00edt? No, asi ned\u00e1, ale v\u011b\u0159te mi, i takov\u00ed chod\u00ed mezi […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":9,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6112","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-vztahy"],"aioseo_notices":[],"aioseo_head":"\n\t\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t