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V\u00a0knize And\u011blsk\u00e9 rady pro \u0161\u0165astn\u00fd \u017eivot na\u010dala autorka (Doreen Virtue) tak\u00e9 pon\u011bkud netypick\u00e9 t\u00e9ma a sice \u2013 jak ukon\u010dit vztah. V\u00a0drtiv\u00e9 v\u011bt\u0161in\u011b takov\u00fd postup zajist\u00ed, \u017ee se ti dva rozejdou v\u00edce m\u00e9n\u011b v\u00a0klidu. Nic se pr\u00fd nevyrovn\u00e1 spokojenosti a sladkosti \u0161\u0165astn\u00e9ho a vyrovnan\u00e9ho vztahu: a tak\u00e9 nic nebol\u00ed v\u00edce, ne\u017e kdy\u017e je tahle z\u00e1kladn\u00ed lidsk\u00e1 jistota naprosto nanic a je v\u0161echno \u0161patn\u011b.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"andelska<\/a>

andelska rada pro stastny zivot 2<\/p><\/div>\n<\/div>\n

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And\u011bl\u00e9 pr\u00fd um\u00ed pomoci co nejhlad\u0161\u00edmu konci vztahu, odstranit ho\u0159kost mezi partnery a pokud se \u0159\u00edd\u00edme and\u011blsk\u00fdmi pravidly, nemus\u00edme m\u00edt z\u00a0rozchodu pocit viny. Nejste si jisti, jestli je partner po\u0159\u00e1d ten prav\u00fd nebo se ve vztahu tr\u00e1p\u00edte?<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Prvn\u00ed v\u011bc, kterou byste m\u011bli ud\u011blat, je po\u017e\u00e1dat and\u011bly o uzdraven\u00ed va\u0161eho vztahu, v\u0161e je individu\u00e1ln\u00ed a tak se m\u016f\u017ee st\u00e1t cokoliv \u2013 od sm\u00ed\u0159en\u00ed a\u017e po rozchod. V\u00a0ka\u017ed\u00e9m p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b se \u017eivotn\u00ed situace sm\u011brem ke zlep\u0161en\u00ed. Ostatn\u011b p\u0159\u00edmo \u0159e\u0161en\u00ed cht\u00edt nem\u00e1me, ponoukat and\u011bly k\u00a0rozchodu, kdy\u017e to t\u0159eba nen\u00ed spr\u00e1vn\u00e9\u2026 na druhou stranu, sta\u010d\u00ed jen pokorn\u00e9 po\u017e\u00e1d\u00e1n\u00ed o pomoc a and\u011bl\u00e9 vy\u0159e\u0161\u00ed situaci tak, jak je to nejvhodn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed.<\/p>\n

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\u201eVa\u0161e instinkty v\u00e1m vel\u00ed, abyste se t\u00e9 l\u00e1sky d\u00e1l dr\u017eeli za ka\u017edou cenu, nevzd\u00e1vali se j\u00ed a nep\u0159ipou\u0161t\u011bli si, \u017ee z\u00a0va\u0161eho vztahu u\u017e nic nezb\u00fdv\u00e1. D\u00e1l na n\u011bm lp\u00edte, nejsp\u00ed\u0161 navzdory tomu, \u017ee u\u017e ho v\u00e1\u0161 prot\u011bj\u0161ek vzdal, zav\u00edr\u00e1te o\u010di p\u0159ed v\u0161emi p\u0159\u00edznaky, douf\u00e1te, \u017ee to nen\u00ed tak zl\u00e9, jak se v\u00e1m zd\u00e1, \u017ee to p\u016fjde n\u011bjak napravit a slepit dohromady. T\u00edm, \u017ee se k\u0159e\u010dovit\u011b dr\u017e\u00edte \u010dehosi, co d\u00e1vno p\u0159estalo existovat, oba je\u0161t\u011b v\u00edc trp\u00edte, vz\u00e1jemn\u011bji zp\u016fsobujete bolest, cloum\u00e1 v\u00e1mi hn\u011bv a \u0159\u00edk\u00e1te a d\u011bl\u00e1te ur\u00e1\u017eliv\u00e9, neodpustiteln\u00e9 v\u011bci.\u201c<\/p>\n

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Lid\u00e9 do na\u0161ich \u017eivot\u016f nemus\u00ed nutn\u011b vstupovat nav\u017edy. T\u00edm m\u00e9n\u011b partne\u0159i a man\u017eel\u00e9. S\u00a0ka\u017ed\u00fdm si d\u00e1me, co vz\u00e1jemn\u011b pot\u0159ebujeme a \u010dasto se stane, \u017ee se smysl na\u0161eho vztahu napln\u00ed. Tehdy n\u00e1s pr\u00fd prot\u011bj\u0161ek p\u0159estane pravd\u011bpodobn\u011b p\u0159itahovat. Tehdy je vztah u konce, napln\u011bn. Je \u010das j\u00edt d\u00e1l\u2026<\/p>\n

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\"andelska<\/a>

andelska rada pro stastny zivot 3<\/p><\/div>\n

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Prosba and\u011bl\u016fm tady m\u00e1 konkr\u00e9tn\u00ed podobu a \u017e\u00e1d\u00e1 odpu\u0161t\u011bn\u00ed si v\u0161eho zl\u00e9ho, vzpom\u00edn\u00e1n\u00ed jen na to dobr\u00e9 a kouzeln\u00e1 formulka na z\u00e1v\u011br potom zn\u00ed:<\/p>\n

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\u201eOslovte v\u00a0duchu sv\u00e9ho partnera a \u0159ekn\u011bte mu: Odpou\u0161t\u00edm ti, odpou\u0161t\u00edm i sob\u011b, zbavuje t\u011b v\u0161ech z\u00e1vazk\u016f a d\u00e1v\u00e1m ti svobodu. Pot\u00e9 po\u017e\u00e1dejte o and\u011blsk\u00e9 veden\u00ed a nechte v\u0161e ostatn\u00ed na nebes\u00edch.\u201c<\/p>\n

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Za Doreen Virtue p\u0159i\u0161la s\u00a0podobnou \u017e\u00e1dost\u00ed\u00a0 Elyse, kter\u00e1 na sv\u00e9 situaci poctiv\u011b t\u00edmto zp\u016fsobem pracovala. S\u00a0man\u017eelem pro\u017e\u00edvala man\u017eelsk\u00e9 h\u00e1dky, on do rodinn\u00e9 poradny necht\u011bl. Elyse se c\u00edtila sama, jej\u00ed vnit\u0159n\u00ed \u017eivot jej\u00edho mu\u017ee nezaj\u00edmal, poni\u017eoval ho a ur\u00e1\u017eel. Tak\u00e9 mu vadilo, \u017ee Elyse opustila akademickou p\u016fdu a vrhla se do sv\u00e9ho srdcov\u00e9ho zam\u011bstn\u00e1n\u00ed \u2013 kou\u010dink lid\u00ed\u2026 v\u00a0d\u016fsledku toho jim poklesly p\u0159\u00edjmy, co\u017e jej\u00ed mu\u017e t\u011b\u017ece nesl.<\/p>\n

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\u201e\u0158ekla jsem jeho str\u00e1\u017en\u00e9mu and\u011blovi, \u017ee u\u017e pro m\u011b nen\u00ed p\u0159ijateln\u00e9 z\u016fst\u00e1vat v\u00a0tomhle nev\u011bdom\u00e9m vztahu a \u017ee jsem rozhodnut\u00e1 m\u00edt duchovn\u011b zalo\u017een\u00fd vztah. Cht\u011bla jsem, abychom se oba na\u0161emu man\u017eelstv\u00ed bu\u010f znovu oddali, nebo aby m\u011b m\u016fj man\u017eel nechal j\u00edt. P\u0159estala jsem \u0159e\u0161it, jestli m\u00e1m z\u016fstat nebo odej\u00edt, a soust\u0159edila jsem se \u010dist\u011b na uzdraven\u00ed na\u0161\u00ed situace\u2026<\/p>\n

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\u2026Pozd\u011bji mi Elyse \u0159ekla, \u017ee za necel\u00e9 dva m\u011bs\u00edce se p\u0159ihodil z\u00e1zrak. \u201eMan\u017eel mi naprosto jasn\u011b a p\u0159itom laskav\u011b \u0159ekl n\u00e1sleduj\u00edc\u00ed: V\u017edycky t\u011b budu milovat, i kdy\u017e t\u0159eba jen srdcem a ne rozumem. Vydala ses jinou cestou ne\u017e j\u00e1. Velmi dlouze a d\u016fkladn\u011b jsem p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161lel, co by pro m\u011b znamenalo vydat se t\u00edm sm\u011brem s\u00a0tebou, a rozhodl jsem se, \u017ee to nen\u00ed nic pro m\u011b. Je na\u010dase, abychom se roze\u0161li.\u201c<\/p>\n

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No\u2026 a jak to tak b\u00fdv\u00e1, od t\u00e9 doby spolu ti dva vych\u00e1z\u00ed mnohem l\u00e9pe ne\u017e v\u00a0posledn\u00edch letech man\u017eelstv\u00ed.<\/p>\n

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A rada na z\u00e1v\u011br v\u00a0r\u00e1me\u010dku u t\u00e9to kapitoly?<\/p>\n

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\u201ePo\u017e\u00e1dejte sv\u00e9ho str\u00e1\u017en\u00e9ho and\u011bla nebo str\u00e1\u017en\u00e9ho and\u011bla sv\u00e9ho partnera o pomoc. Usilujte o uzdraven\u00ed, ani\u017e byste se v\u00e1zali na konkr\u00e9tn\u00ed v\u00fdsledek nebo formu uzdraven\u00ed.\u201c<\/p>\n

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Kniha Doreen Virtue: And\u011blsk\u00e9 rady pro \u0161\u0165astn\u00fd \u017eivot je o vyu\u017eit\u00ed sv\u00e9ho \u0161est\u00e9ho smyslu pro komunikaci se sebou sam\u00fdm, se sv\u00fdmi and\u011bly a pro nalezen\u00ed sv\u00e9ho vnit\u0159n\u00edho klidu. Cel\u00e1 je ale koncipov\u00e1na tak, \u017ee pokud je pro v\u00e1s and\u011blsk\u00e9 t\u00e9ma \u201ep\u0159es \u010d\u00e1ru\u201c, nevad\u00ed\u2026 i p\u0159esto v\u00a0n\u00ed najdete z\u00e1kladn\u00ed psychologick\u00e9 pravdy, duchovn\u00ed pravdy a hlavn\u011b \u00fat\u011bchu. Takovou, kter\u00e1 skrze slova vykl\u00ed\u010d\u00ed v\u00a0lidsk\u00e9 du\u0161i a H\u0158EJE.<\/p>\n

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M\u00e1m r\u00e1da konven\u010dn\u00ed psychologii Doreen Virtue a jsem k\u00a0and\u011bl\u016fm (nebo p\u0159esn\u011bji k\u00a0jejich p\u0159esn\u00e9mu pojmenov\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed a vz\u00fdv\u00e1n\u00ed) dosti skeptik. Takhle kniha m\u011b v\u0161ak i p\u0159esto pohladila a pot\u011b\u0161ila, proto\u017ee je st\u0159\u00edzlivou kombinac\u00ed oboj\u00edho.\u00a0 Jemn\u00e1 jako pe\u0159\u00ed\u010dko. A ostatn\u011b kdov\u00ed, i kdyby l\u00e9\u010dila jen pouh\u00e1 p\u0159edstava existence and\u011bl\u016f\u2026<\/p>\n

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