Jasn\u011b, \u017ee svat\u00fd Valent\u00fdn nesouvis\u00ed jenom se s\u0148atkem. Je to roztomil\u00fd sv\u00e1tek a m\u011b je t\u0159eba \u00fapln\u011b fuk, jestli je importovan\u00fd. Ur\u010dit\u011b bychom ho toti\u017e slavili i d\u0159\u00edve, kdyby to \u0161lo. Tak si to u\u017eijme. V\u017edy\u0165 jak\u00fd hez\u010d\u00ed sv\u00e1tek slavit, ne\u017e zamilovan\u00fd?<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n<\/div>\n <\/p>\n P\u0159etrv\u00e1 v\u011bky, p\u0159en\u00e1\u0161\u00ed hory, (i nemoce, ale to kom\u00e1r taky, proto\u017ee n\u00e1s miluje a\u017e k se\u017er\u00e1n\u00ed)<\/em>, l\u00e9\u010d\u00ed, d\u011bl\u00e1 z lid\u00ed roztomil\u00e9 hlup\u00e1ky, naivky, um\u00ed zab\u00edjet, ale tak\u00e9 nab\u00edjet a m\u016f\u017ee j\u00ed \u201eonemocn\u011bt\u201c ka\u017ed\u00fd v jak\u00e9mkoli v\u011bku.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n A co v\u00edc, ka\u017ed\u00fd, \u00fapln\u011b ka\u017ed\u00fd se j\u00ed chce nakazit.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Ano, je to l\u00e1ska!<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n A s n\u00ed ta nejkr\u00e1sn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed dv\u011b slova, kter\u00e1 zn\u00e1me.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n \u201eMILUJI T\u011a\u201c<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n A tak a\u0165 \u017eije dne\u0161n\u00ed n\u00e1dhern\u00fd a n\u011b\u017en\u00fd sv\u00e1tek pln\u00fd srd\u00ed\u010dek, vyzn\u00e1n\u00ed a drobn\u00fdch pozornost\u00ed.<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n A\u0165 \u017eije svat\u00fd Valent\u00fdn, ten nejmilej\u0161\u00ed svatou\u0161ek.<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Nebudu u\u017e zdr\u017eovat legendou o kn\u011bzi, kter\u00fd odd\u00e1val zamilovan\u00e9 p\u00e1ry p\u0159es z\u00e1kaz, a\u017e na to doplatil \u017eivotem.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n J\u00e1 m\u00e1m pro v\u00e1s dneska n\u011bco m\u00e1lo vysv\u011btlivek, k onomu ob\u0159adu samotn\u00e9mu.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Zvyk\u016f kolem svateb je asi stejn\u00e9 mno\u017estv\u00ed, jako m\u00e1 l\u00e1ska podob.<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Tak kdyby v\u00e1s n\u011bkdo dneska po\u017e\u00e1dal o ruku, a vy jste \u0159ekly \u201eano\u201c\u2026 ur\u010dit\u011b budete v r\u00e1mci n\u00e1sledn\u00e9ho ob\u0159adu d\u011blat f\u016fru ritu\u00e1l\u016f.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Tak se t\u0159eba bude hodit, kdy\u017e budete taky v\u011bd\u011bt, pro\u010d se co d\u011bl\u00e1.<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Je\u0161t\u011b jsem nevid\u011bla nev\u011bstu, kter\u00e1 by se nestrachovala, \u017ee ji vyvolen\u00fd spat\u0159\u00ed d\u0159\u00edv, ne\u017e prob\u011bhne ob\u0159ad, nen\u00ed svatebn\u00ed kolony, kter\u00e1 by netroubila, a nen\u00ed rozbit\u00e9ho n\u00e1dob\u00ed.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Tak jako u mnoha jad\u00fdrek mnoha zvyk\u016f je i u t\u011bch svatebn\u00edch mo\u017en\u00e9 dohledat logiku a souvislost s realitou.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Kdy\u017e ne tou sou\u010dasnou, tak rozhodn\u011b tou d\u00e1vnou.<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Jsme z\u00e1kladem pohan\u00e9 a tak\u00e9 drtiv\u00e1 v\u011bt\u0161ina t\u011bchto ritu\u00e1l\u016f m\u00e1 p\u016fvod u na\u0161ich pohansk\u00fdch p\u0159edk\u016f a jejich malebn\u00fdch boh\u016f a p\u0159\u00edv\u011btiv\u00e9 v\u00edry.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Mimochodem v\u00edte, \u017ee pohan\u00e9 uzav\u00edrali s\u0148atek na dobu \u201edokud l\u00e1ska trv\u00e1\u201c<\/em><\/strong>? P\u0159ijde mi to velice moudr\u00e9, pokrokov\u00e9 a von\u00ed to svobodou.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Pro\u010d nev\u011bsta nepe\u010de svatebn\u00ed kol\u00e1\u010de a nijak nepom\u00e1h\u00e1 p\u0159i pe\u010den\u00ed?<\/strong> \u2013<\/p>\n Proto\u017ee by m\u011bla uplakan\u00e9 d\u011bti.<\/em><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Pro\u010d z\u00e1voj?<\/strong> \u2013<\/p>\n Proto\u017ee nev\u011bsta zakr\u00fdv\u00e1 nos a \u00fasta, aby se nep\u0159ej\u00edcnost a z\u00e1vist i zl\u00fd duch do jej\u00edho t\u011bla nedostal.<\/em><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Pro\u010d m\u00e1 m\u00edt nev\u011bsta ve svatebn\u00ed den v\u0161e nov\u00e9?<\/strong> \u2013<\/p>\n Jako symbol nov\u00e9ho po\u010d\u00e1tku.<\/em><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Jednu v\u011bc p\u016fj\u010denou od \u0161\u0165astn\u00e9ho \u010dlov\u011bka?<\/strong> \u2013<\/p>\n Ritu\u00e1l podobnosti. Magie je polo\u017eena na vz\u00e1jemn\u00e9 p\u0159ita\u017elivosti v\u011bc\u00ed.<\/em><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Jednu starou?<\/strong> \u2013<\/p>\n Symbol zachov\u00e1n\u00ed posloupnosti a tradice.<\/em><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Pro\u010d se p\u0159i svatebn\u00ed hostin\u011b posazuje na kl\u00edn d\u00edt\u011b?<\/strong> \u2013<\/p>\n Aby bylo hojn\u00e9 potomstvo. Zase ritu\u00e1l synchronicity.<\/em><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Pro\u010d si vkl\u00e1d\u00e1 nev\u011bsta do st\u0159ev\u00edce minci? <\/strong>\u2013<\/p>\n P\u016fvod je stejn\u00fd. V\u011bci se p\u0159itahuj\u00ed a p\u0159inese to novoman\u017eel\u016fm bohatstv\u00ed.<\/em><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Pro\u010d by se sestry nem\u011bly vd\u00e1vat ve stejn\u00fd den?<\/strong> \u2013<\/p>\n U\u017e na\u0161i p\u0159edkov\u00e9 v\u011bd\u011bli, \u017ee \u201ekdy\u017e dva d\u011blaj\u00ed tot\u00e9\u017e, nen\u00ed to tot\u00e9\u017e\u201c.<\/em><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Pro\u010d st\u0159epy p\u0159in\u00e1\u0161ej\u00ed \u0161t\u011bst\u00ed?<\/strong> \u2013<\/p>\n Tady nejde tak docela o st\u0159epy, ale o hluk, kter\u00fdm se odh\u00e1n\u011bj\u00ed zl\u00ed duchov\u00e9.<\/em><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Pro\u010d ten, kdo vykro\u010d\u00ed od olt\u00e1\u0159e pravou nohou, bude vl\u00e1dnout v dom\u00e1cnosti ?<\/strong>\u2013<\/p>\n Lev\u00e1 strana je stranou \u017eensk\u00e9 energie a vody. Prav\u00e1 pat\u0159\u00ed ohni, s\u00edle a mu\u017esk\u00e9 energii.<\/em><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Pro\u010d kdy\u017e p\u0159eb\u011bhne cestou z ob\u0159adu p\u0159es cestu kot\u011b, budou m\u00edt novoman\u017eel\u00e9 \u0161t\u011bst\u00ed ?<\/strong>\u2013 Ml\u00e1\u010fata v\u0161eobecn\u011b byla na\u0161imi p\u0159edky pokl\u00e1d\u00e1na na symbol hojnosti. Chovali zv\u00ed\u0159ata a narozen\u00ed ml\u00e1\u010fat znamenalo v\u017edycky dobr\u00e9 v\u011bci, dostatek potravy a podobn\u011b.<\/em><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Pro\u010d by \u017eenich nem\u011bl vid\u011bt svou vyvolenou ve svatebn\u00edch \u0161atech p\u0159ed ob\u0159adem?<\/strong> \u2013<\/p>\n \u0160lo o ritu\u00e1l nevhodnosti p\u0159edch\u00e1zen\u00ed ud\u00e1lostem \u2013 vezme\u0161 v\u00edc, ne\u017e m\u00e1\u0161 v tu chv\u00edli.<\/em><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Pro\u010d trouben\u00ed klakson\u016f p\u0159i j\u00edzd\u011b autem?<\/strong> \u2013<\/p>\n Brali se v p\u0159\u00edrod\u011b, zpravidla na kraji lesa. B\u011bhem ch\u016fze tam i zp\u00e1tky lid\u00e9 v pr\u016fvodu cinkali zvone\u010dky, chrastili d\u0159\u00edvky a podobn\u011b. <\/em><\/p>\n <\/p>\n To v\u0161echno proto, aby odehnali zl\u00e9 duchy a chudobu, aby negativn\u00ed jevy nen\u00e1sledovaly man\u017eele do jejich nov\u00e9ho p\u0159\u00edbytku. <\/em><\/p>\n Ze stejn\u00e9ho d\u016fvodu se vyr\u00e1b\u00ed z\u00e1v\u011bsn\u00e9 zvonkohry do byt\u016f \u2013 zlo nem\u00e1 r\u00e1do cink\u00e1n\u00ed.<\/em><\/p>\n <\/p>\n \u200bMimochodem, p\u016fvodn\u00ed \u00fa\u010del \u0161perk\u016f, \u0159et\u00edzk\u016f, n\u00e1ramk\u016f a n\u00e1u\u0161nic je d\u0159\u00edve ne\u017e okrasn\u00fd pr\u00e1v\u011b tenhle.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n Pro\u010d maj\u00ed novoman\u017eel\u00e9 j\u00edst p\u0159i svatebn\u00ed hostin\u011b z jednoho tal\u00ed\u0159e? <\/strong>\u2013<\/p>\n Jde o ritu\u00e1l spolupr\u00e1ce, pospolitosti a vz\u00e1jemn\u00e9 pomoci. <\/em><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Pro\u010d m\u00e1 \u017eenich nev\u011bstu p\u0159en\u00e9st p\u0159es pr\u00e1h nov\u00e9ho domu?<\/strong> \u2013<\/p>\n D\u0159\u00edve lid\u00e9 v\u011b\u0159ili, \u017ee zlo a negativn\u00ed s\u00edly se usazuj\u00ed pod prahem domu. Do nev\u011bstiny dlouh\u00e9 sukn\u011b by se mohlo snadno n\u011bco z toho dostat do domu.<\/em><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Na pr\u00e1h se tak\u00e9 pokl\u00e1dal chl\u00e9b a ml\u00e9ko.<\/strong><\/p>\n To bylo ur\u010deno pro dobr\u00e9 duchy, aby domov chr\u00e1nili a stali se nov\u00fdm p\u0159\u00edchoz\u00edm p\u0159\u00e1teli.<\/em><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Pro\u010d svatba v m\u00e1ji, nev\u011bsta na m\u00e1ry? <\/strong>\u2013<\/p>\n Oby\u010dejn\u00e1 zku\u0161enost. \u017dena zpravidla ot\u011bhotn\u011bla hned po svazku, a miminko tak p\u0159ivedla na sv\u011bt v zim\u011b, co\u017e bylo velice zat\u011b\u017euj\u00edc\u00ed, kdy\u017e si uv\u011bdom\u00edme, jak slo\u017eit\u00e9 podm\u00ednky k \u017eivotu na\u0161i p\u0159edkov\u00e9 m\u011bli.<\/em><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Pro\u010d r\u00fd\u017ee, kterou h\u00e1z\u00ed svateb\u010dan\u00e9 na novoman\u017eele, symbolizuje plodnost?<\/strong> \u2013<\/p>\n Nebyla to jen r\u00fd\u017ee, mnohem \u010dast\u011bji to bylo jak\u00e9koli zrno \u2013 Zase podobnost s plodnost\u00ed.<\/em><\/p>\n <\/p>\n No vida\u2026 a pak se \u0159ekne, \u201eJENOM ZVYK\u201c<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n P\u0159eji v\u00e1m v\u0161em, co mo\u017en\u00e1 nej\u0161\u0165astn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed dne\u0161n\u00ed den, pln\u00fd t\u00e9 n\u00e1dhern\u00e9 <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n a dej B\u016fh naka\u017eliv\u00e9 epidemie, kter\u00e9 nen\u00ed nikdy dost.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n A\u0165 se \u0161\u00ed\u0159\u00ed, a\u0165 jsme st\u00e1le naka\u017eeni v ka\u017ed\u00e9m koutu sv\u011bta…<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n L\u00e1skou!<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n![\"19884YzI.jpg\"](\"https:\/\/popelky.cz\/verze7-0\/text_img\/19884YzI.jpg\")
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