Vzpom\u00edn\u00e1te si na malou holku s nezdoln\u00fdm optimismem? \u010cetli jste tu knihu? J\u00e1 ano a Pollyaninna \u201ehra na \u0161t\u011bst\u00ed\u201c mi u\u010darovala u\u017e jako dosp\u00edvaj\u00edc\u00ed. Nebylo nic, co by Polly neum\u011bla obr\u00e1tit v n\u011bco dobr\u00e9ho. Nikdy se nenechala zlomit, dokonce ani zlou tetou, kter\u00e1 j\u00ed trestala a nech\u00e1vala hladov\u011bt. Pollyanna by m\u011bla b\u00fdt vzorem n\u00e1m v\u0161em. A podle v\u011bdc\u016f i je\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div>\n <\/p>\n Obdivovala jsem ji a tuhle knihu jsem \u010detla mockr\u00e1t v mnoha r\u016fzn\u00fdch vyd\u00e1n\u00edch.<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Nic nebylo nikdy pro ni tak \u0161patn\u00e9, aby se na tom nedalo naj\u00edt n\u011bco \u00fasm\u011bvn\u00e9ho, nebo dobr\u00e9ho. \u017d\u00e1dn\u00fd \u010dlov\u011bk nebyl jenom zl\u00fd.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Jestli se tomu \u0159\u00edk\u00e1 pozitivn\u00ed pohled na sv\u011bt?<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Asi ano.<\/p>\n A mnoz\u00ed lid\u00e9 by podle na\u0161eho soudu pot\u0159ebovali m\u00edt v sob\u011b \u0161petku t\u00e9 pozitivn\u00ed Polly jako s\u016fl.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n A p\u0159ece to nen\u00ed pravda.<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n \u010c\u00e1st Pollyanny pr\u00fd, alespo\u0148 podle studie n\u011bkolika skupin v\u011bdc\u016f a psycholog\u016f z n\u011bkolika zem\u00ed, je vlastn\u00ed ka\u017ed\u00e9mu \u010dlov\u011bku.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Dokonce je n\u00e1m pr\u00fd nadsazov\u00e1n\u00ed pozitivn\u00edch v\u011bc\u00ed nad negativn\u00ed zcela p\u0159irozen\u00e9.<\/p>\n A to i t\u011bm nejzatvrzen\u011bj\u0161\u00edm \u0161karohl\u00edd\u016fm, t\u011bm nejv\u011bt\u0161\u00edm pesimist\u016fm a bru\u010doun\u016fm.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n M\u00e1me tendenci up\u0159ednost\u0148ovat to lep\u0161\u00ed.<\/p>\n A to v\u0161ichni.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Pr\u00fd\u2026<\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n Pova\u017ete, co vyzkoumala modern\u00ed v\u011bda za n\u011bkolik posledn\u00edch des\u00edtek let.<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n P\u0159edstavte si, \u017ee naprosto b\u011b\u017en\u011b, ale podv\u011bdom\u011b nap\u0159\u00edklad pou\u017e\u00edv\u00e1me mnohem \u010dast\u011bji pozitivn\u00ed v\u00fdrazy ne\u017e negativn\u00ed nebo i neutr\u00e1ln\u00ed.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Nebudete tomu mo\u017en\u00e1 v\u011b\u0159it, ale pokud v\u00e1s nech\u00e1m nakreslit dva p\u0159edm\u011bty, z nich\u017e jeden bude t\u0159eba tabulka \u010dokol\u00e1dy a druh\u00fd kus d\u0159eva, pak p\u0159esto\u017ee budou naprosto stejn\u011b velik\u00e9, bude va\u0161\u00ed rukou namalovan\u00e1 \u010dokol\u00e1da v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n A je jedno, k jak\u00e9 se hl\u00e1s\u00edme n\u00e1rodnosti!<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Studie, kter\u00e1 zlustrovala dohromady \u010dty\u0159i a p\u016fl milionu slov z \u010dasopis\u016f n\u011bkolika st\u00e1t\u016f v\u010detn\u011b asijsk\u00fdch, evropsk\u00fdch, americk\u00fdch, vyzkoumala tohle:<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Slovo<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n LEP\u0160\u00cd napo\u010d\u00edtala 2 354 X<\/p>\n HOR\u0160\u00cd \u2013 450<\/p>\n <\/p>\n \u010cIST\u00dd \u2013 781<\/p>\n \u0160PINAV\u00dd – 221<\/p>\n <\/p>\n DOBR\u00dd \u2013 5 122<\/p>\n \u0160PATN\u00dd \u2013 1001<\/p>\n <\/p>\n ODM\u011aNA \u2013 154<\/p>\n TREST \u2013 80<\/p>\n <\/p>\n \u017dIVOT \u2013 4 804<\/p>\n SMRT \u2013 801<\/p>\n <\/p>\n L\u00c1SKA \u2013 5 125<\/p>\n NEN\u00c1VIST \u2013 756<\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n \u2026 n\u00e1sleduj\u00ed dal\u0161\u00ed v podobn\u00e9m duchu s podobn\u00fdm v\u00fdsledkem\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n A to nen\u00ed v\u0161echno.<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Kdy\u017e n\u011bkomu \u0159eknete, aby sepsal povahov\u00e9 vlastnosti a jejich opaky, bude to vypadat tak, \u017ee 99 lid\u00ed ze 100 neomyln\u011b \u0159ad\u00ed jako prvn\u00ed tu dobrou.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Automaticky s n\u00ed za\u010dne.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n CHYTR\u00dd – <\/strong>HLOUP\u00dd<\/p>\n VESEL\u00dd – <\/strong>SMUTN\u00dd<\/p>\n MIL\u00dd – <\/strong>PROTIVN\u00dd<\/p>\n DOBR\u00c1K \u2013 <\/strong>PADOUCH<\/p>\n <\/p>\n A tak d\u00e1le\u2026<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Jin\u00ed lid\u00e9 dostali namalovat mince, vedle kter\u00fdch byla polo\u017eena jen vyst\u0159i\u017een\u00e1 plastov\u00e1 kole\u010dka.<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Ano spr\u00e1vn\u011b, mince byly v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed, a\u010dkoli p\u0159edlohy se velikost\u00ed od sebe neli\u0161ily ani o milimetr.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n A co v\u00edc\u2026.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n \u010c\u00edm vy\u0161\u0161\u00ed byla hodnota na minci, t\u00edm v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed bylo kole\u010dko, kter\u00e9 lid\u00e9 malovali bez ohledu na vedlej\u0161\u00ed plastovou kolegyni bez \u010d\u00edsla.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Zaj\u00edmav\u00e9, \u017ee?<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Jist\u011b jste si u\u017e v\u0161imli i jin\u00e9ho dokladu toho, \u017ee \u010dlov\u011bk je v z\u00e1sad\u011b pozitivn\u011b nalad\u011bn\u00fd, alespo\u0148 n\u011bkde tam hluboko uvnit\u0159.<\/p>\n Je to model selektivn\u00edho chov\u00e1n\u00ed na\u0161\u00ed pam\u011bti.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n To m\u016f\u017ee n\u011bkdy dost zava\u0159it.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Po rozchodu toti\u017e, m\u00e1me tendenci vyselektovat \u0161patn\u00e9 v\u011bci a vzpom\u00ednat v\u00edc na ty dobr\u00e9, co\u017e mnohdy zp\u016fsobuje p\u0159echodnou dobu mnohem v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed tr\u00e1pen\u00ed.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Nejsme prost\u011b schopni myslet na milovanou osobu ve zl\u00e9m, i kdy\u017e si to hrozn\u011b p\u0159ejeme.<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Pon\u011bkud p\u0159\u00edjemn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed, ale stejn\u011b obvykl\u00fd je model, kdy m\u00e1me zp\u011btn\u011b na n\u011bjakou nep\u0159\u00edjemnou ud\u00e1lost tendenci vzpom\u00ednat s \u00fasm\u011bvem a v podstat\u011b ji bagatelizovat.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Um\u00edme si d\u011blat legraci i z velice z\u00e1va\u017en\u00fdch v\u011bc\u00ed.<\/p>\n Velmi z\u00e1hy.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n To v\u0161echno z n\u00e1s d\u011bl\u00e1 tak trochu Pollyanny ze v\u0161ech.<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n Jakkoli ale v\u011bdci na tuty v\u011bd\u00ed, \u017ee se tohle s lidmi d\u011bje, a \u017ee to m\u00e1 prakticky ka\u017ed\u00fd \u010dlov\u011bk bez ohledu na n\u00e1rodnost, nikdo zat\u00edm nep\u0159i\u0161el s vysv\u011btlen\u00edm PRO\u010c.<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Pro\u010d se lidsk\u00e9 v\u011bdom\u00ed automaticky p\u0159it\u00e1\u010d\u00ed k tomu p\u0159\u00edjemn\u011bj\u0161\u00edmu a pro\u010d m\u00e1me n\u011bkdy iracion\u00e1ln\u011b pot\u0159ebu d\u011blat v\u011bci lep\u0161\u00ed, v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed, hez\u010d\u00ed a kvalitn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed ne\u017e jsou?<\/p>\n <\/p>\n \u017de by to byl jak\u00fdsi pud sebez\u00e1chovy na tomhle sv\u011bt\u011b?<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Nebo prost\u011b podv\u011bdom\u011b v\u00edme, \u017ee ty r\u016f\u017eov\u011bj\u0161\u00ed br\u00fdle n\u00e1m nejen zkvalit\u0148uj\u00ed \u017eivot, pota\u017emo, zlep\u0161uj\u00ed zdrav\u00ed, a \u017ee t\u00edm p\u00e1dem budeme i d\u00e9le na\u017eivu?<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Je mo\u017en\u00e9, \u017ee kdesi uvnit\u0159 i ten nejv\u011bt\u0161\u00ed bru\u010doun v\u00ed, \u017ee nemoci ducha z\u00e1hy p\u0159ivedou i nemoci t\u011bla?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n \u017de smutek, strach a negativum jsou nebezpe\u010dn\u00e9?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n \u017de p\u0159e\u017eij\u00ed sp\u00ed\u0161e ti, kdo v\u011b\u0159\u00ed, \u017ee p\u0159e\u017eij\u00ed, ne\u017e ti, kdo v\u00edru ztratili?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Vid\u00edte, i j\u00e1 jsem se te\u010f p\u0159istihla, \u017ee vlastn\u011b v cel\u00e9m \u010dl\u00e1nku, zcela bez p\u0159edchoz\u00edho \u00famyslu stav\u00edm to dobr\u00e9 p\u0159ed to \u0161patn\u00e9.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n A to je asi dob\u0159e.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n S malou Pollyannou v srdci n\u00e1m bude v\u017edycky l\u00edp a v\u011bda n\u00e1m to podepsala<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Tak hezk\u00fd den!<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Michaela Kudl\u00e1\u010dkov\u00e1<\/em><\/p>\n [sexy_author_bio]<\/p>\n Views: 13 Vzpom\u00edn\u00e1te si na malou holku s nezdoln\u00fdm optimismem? \u010cetli jste tu knihu? 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