{"id":3179,"date":"2013-10-13T11:01:14","date_gmt":"2013-10-13T09:01:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/popelky.cz\/pokus_sablona\/?p=3179"},"modified":"2018-08-06T11:02:02","modified_gmt":"2018-08-06T09:02:02","slug":"osobni-kruh-bezpeci-a-sahaci-typy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/popelky.cz\/verze7-0\/spolecnost\/osobni-kruh-bezpeci-a-sahaci-typy.html","title":{"rendered":"Osobn\u00ed kruh bezpe\u010d\u00ed a \u201e\u0161ahac\u00ed typy\u201c"},"content":{"rendered":"

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\nU\u017e d\u00e1vno jsem si v\u0161imla a i jsem o tom kdysi psala, \u017ee jsou lid\u00e9 tak\u0159\u00edkaj\u00edc dotekov\u00ed a ti, kdo maj\u00ed tu pomyslnou ochranou z\u00f3nu, jak\u00fdsi osobn\u00ed kruh bezpe\u010d\u00ed \u0159ekn\u011bme m\u00e9n\u011b prostupn\u00e9. Pat\u0159\u00edm k t\u011bm druh\u00fdm, kdy\u017e striktn\u011b vyjmu mal\u00e9 d\u011bti, jejich\u017e dotek mi d\u011bl\u00e1 dob\u0159e. Naproti tomu jsou jedinci, kte\u0159\u00ed si n\u00e1s p\u0159i hovoru mus\u00ed alespo\u0148 jednou otlapkat, jinak to nen\u00ed ono\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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Takov\u00fdch, kter\u00fdm letm\u00e9 doteky a popl\u00e1c\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed vysloven\u011b vad\u00ed, je mnoho.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Stejn\u011b mnoho, jako opa\u010dn\u00fdch typ\u016f.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Kdy\u017e tlpakal natref\u00ed na prot\u011bj\u0161ek, kter\u00fd je podobn\u00fd, mus\u00ed to b\u00fdt kr\u00e1sn\u00e1 symbi\u00f3za. U\u017e vid\u00edm, jak se opl\u00e1c\u00e1v\u00e1 a bratrsky \u0148uf\u00e1 nap\u0159\u00edklad \u0161\u00e9f s pod\u0159\u00edzen\u00fdm. \u00dachvatn\u00e9.<\/p>\n

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Jen\u017ee, co kdy\u017e to jeden vy\u017eaduje a d\u011bl\u00e1 mu to dob\u0159e a druh\u00e9mu je to vysloven\u011b nep\u0159\u00edjemn\u00e9? <\/strong><\/p>\n

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Jak vysv\u011btlit takov\u00e9mu p\u0159\u00edtulovi, \u017ee k n\u011bmu chov\u00e1me ve\u0161ker\u00e9 sympatie, ale nepot\u0159ebujeme se po n\u011bm p\u0159i ka\u017ed\u00e9 p\u0159\u00edle\u017eitosti vinout jako b\u0159e\u010d\u0165an? Moc to nejde, proto\u017ee \u010dlov\u011bk m\u00e1 v\u011bt\u0161inou z\u00e1brany, ranit n\u011b\u010d\u00ed city a n\u00e1klonnost a tak se zpravdila nech\u00e1v\u00e1me ochmat\u00e1vat.<\/p>\n

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Moje nejmlad\u0161\u00ed dcera b\u00fdvala takov\u00fd mal\u00fd rozko\u0161n\u00fd obliza.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Nebylo minuty, aby mi nevisela zauzlovan\u00e1 okolo krku, ramen, pasu, nohy, \u010di jin\u00fdch sou\u010d\u00e1st\u00ed. Kdy\u017e ne to, tak m\u011b musela alespo\u0148 hladit a\u017e skoro do vyhlazen\u00ed.<\/p>\n

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A kdybych to byla jen j\u00e1\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Johanka velmi dlouho p\u011bstovala discipl\u00ednu – hunpu na ka\u017ed\u00e9ho, a\u0165 je to p\u0159\u00edtel star\u0161\u00ed dcery, kolegyn\u011b z pr\u00e1ce, sympatick\u00fd taxik\u00e1\u0159, doru\u010dovatelka a podobn\u011b\u2026<\/p>\n

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Dnes, kdy\u017e u\u017e je to mal\u00e1 sle\u010dna, to na sebe vzalo hezkou a milou podobu, kter\u00e1 spo\u010d\u00edv\u00e1 v tom, \u017ee se obj\u00edm\u00e1 jen s ur\u010dit\u00fdmi typy, nap\u0159\u00edklad se mnou ob\u010das a s kamar\u00e1dkami \u010dasto \"smiley\" Ov\u0161em, je to proto, \u017ee je \u010dast\u011bji vid\u00ed.<\/p>\n

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Jak to, \u017ee je n\u011bkdo dotekov\u00fd a jin\u00fd ne?<\/strong><\/p>\n

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 Vlastn\u011b na to pr\u00fd ani mustr nen\u00ed. Je to v povaze a jak\u00e9msi podv\u011bdom\u00e9m p\u0159\u00edstupu ke spole\u010dnosti a je to velice individu\u00e1ln\u00ed. V\u00edce se s takovouto vst\u0159\u00edcnost\u00ed setk\u00e1v\u00e1me u d\u011bt\u00ed, ale ani dosp\u011bl\u00ed nejsou v\u00fdjimkou. D\u011btem lze vysv\u011btlit, \u017ee to nemohou d\u011blat ciz\u00edm lidem, \u017ee je to neslu\u0161n\u00e9, ale byla bych na to opatrn\u00e1, proto\u017ee je t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9 vysv\u011btlovat d\u00edt\u011bti, \u017ee l\u00e1ska a n\u00e1klonnost nen\u00ed slu\u0161nost. U n\u011bkter\u00fdch dosp\u011bl\u00fdch existuje mal\u00e1 spojitost s podv\u011bdom\u00fdm pocitem jistoty. Nab\u00edz\u00ed se, \u017ee n\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed jedinci si t\u00edmto zp\u016fsobem zcela podv\u011bdom\u011b zaji\u0161\u0165uj\u00ed n\u00e1klonnost druh\u00e9ho, kter\u00e9ho pokl\u00e1daj\u00ed za mor\u00e1ln\u011b siln\u011bj\u0161\u00edho. Jak\u00fdsi prvobytn\u011b pospoln\u00fd, anim\u00e1ln\u00ed prvek,<\/em> vysv\u011btlila mi p\u0159ed lety PhDr. Daniela Martincov\u00e1, z man\u017eelsk\u00e9 a psychologick\u00e1 poradny.<\/p>\n

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Nutno \u0159\u00edci, \u017ee i ten nejv\u011bt\u0161\u00ed nedotekovec m\u00edv\u00e1 chvilky, kdy m\u00e1 pot\u0159ebu druh\u00e9ho zcela spont\u00e1nn\u011b pol\u00edbit, pohladit nebo obejmout.<\/p>\n

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Zpravidla se pak prot\u011bj\u0161ek zatv\u00e1\u0159\u00ed udiven\u011b a j\u00e1 osobn\u011b, pokud m\u011b takov\u00fd z\u00e1chvat popadne, b\u00fdv\u00e1m podez\u00edr\u00e1na, \u017ee jsem n\u011bco povedla, nebo pila alkohol.<\/p>\n

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To prvn\u00ed je u m\u011b jednizna\u010dn\u011b pravd\u011bpodobn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed ne\u017e to druh\u00e9.<\/p>\n

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Na z\u00e1v\u011br mal\u00e9 upozorn\u011bn\u00ed:<\/strong> Pokud by se n\u011bkdo podez\u0159ele kolem v\u00e1s vinul, provozoval letm\u00e9 doteky a p\u0159\u00edpadn\u011b del\u0161\u00ed dobu nech\u00e1val svou ruku na va\u0161em t\u011ble (a nen\u00ed to parnter), a pokud se v\u00e1m p\u0159i tom d\u011bl\u00e1 podez\u0159ele slabo, je to up\u00edr a netlapk\u00e1 na v\u00e1s proto, \u017ee je prost\u011b kontaktn\u00ed, ale bere si va\u0161i energii a d\u011bl\u00e1 to v\u011bdomn\u011b.<\/p>\n

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Michaela Kudl\u00e1\u010dkov\u00e1<\/em><\/p>\n

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Views: 21 P\u0158\u00cdLOHA NA V\u00cdKEND U\u017e d\u00e1vno jsem si v\u0161imla a i jsem o tom kdysi psala, \u017ee jsou lid\u00e9 tak\u0159\u00edkaj\u00edc dotekov\u00ed a ti, kdo maj\u00ed tu pomyslnou ochranou z\u00f3nu, jak\u00fdsi osobn\u00ed kruh bezpe\u010d\u00ed \u0159ekn\u011bme m\u00e9n\u011b prostupn\u00e9. Pat\u0159\u00edm k t\u011bm druh\u00fdm, kdy\u017e striktn\u011b vyjmu mal\u00e9 d\u011bti, jejich\u017e dotek mi d\u011bl\u00e1 dob\u0159e. Naproti tomu jsou jedinci, kte\u0159\u00ed […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":3180,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3179","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-spolecnost"],"aioseo_notices":[],"aioseo_head":"\n\t\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t