{"id":2882,"date":"2014-09-11T08:53:42","date_gmt":"2014-09-11T06:53:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/popelky.cz\/pokus_sablona\/?p=2882"},"modified":"2018-07-29T08:54:20","modified_gmt":"2018-07-29T06:54:20","slug":"velkej-vztek","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/popelky.cz\/verze7-0\/spolecnost\/velkej-vztek.html","title":{"rendered":"VELKEJ vztek"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Nen\u00ed den, aby se v\u011bt\u0161ina z n\u00e1s nedostala do styku s agresivn\u00edm chov\u00e1n\u00edm. A\u0165 jsou to na\u0161e d\u011bti ve \u0161kolce, \u0159idi\u010di po cest\u011b z pr\u00e1ce, z\u00e1kazn\u00edk, kter\u00fd nepochopil tr\u017en\u00ed ekonomiku nebo jen protiva, co v\u00e1m najel ve front\u011b u kasy p\u0159et\u00ed\u017een\u00fdm voz\u00edkem na mal\u00ed\u010dek. <\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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I p\u0159esto jsme si nezvykli a z m\u00e9di\u00ed i spole\u010dnosti je \u010d\u00edm d\u00e1l \u010dast\u011bji sly\u0161et \u017ealoba na dne\u0161n\u00ed dobu, kter\u00e1 v\u0161eobecn\u011b zlostn\u00e9 jedn\u00e1n\u00ed plod\u00ed. Jeden si \u0159ekne:<\/p>\n

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\u201eJsme na vrcholu potravn\u00edho \u0159et\u011bzce, hned po delf\u00ednovi nejchyt\u0159ej\u0161\u00ed mezi tvory, lidsk\u00fd jedinec stvo\u0159il Monu Lisu a p\u0159ist\u00e1li jsme na M\u011bs\u00edci. Pro\u010d m\u00e1me po\u0159\u00e1d pot\u0159ebu dok\u00e1zat si n\u011bco v kolon\u011b aut nebo v bitce o ak\u010dn\u00ed m\u00e1slo?\u201c<\/em><\/p>\n

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Tak za prv\u00e9 se nemus\u00edme c\u00edtit v \u017eivo\u010di\u0161n\u00e9 \u0159\u00ed\u0161i jako kr\u00e1lov\u00e9 zvrhl\u00edk\u016f.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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To, \u017ee v\u00e1s se\u0159ve po\u0161\u0165a\u010dka nebo v\u00e1s vybrzd\u00ed auto na d\u00e1lnici je \u00fapln\u00e9 nic proti tomu, kdyby v\u00e1s t\u0159eba soused ve front\u011b zakousl a vyplivl. Vnitrodruhov\u00e1 agrese je jev zcela b\u011b\u017en\u00fd a m\u00e1 mnoho p\u0159\u00ed\u010din i prost\u0159edk\u016f. Pravda, potkani nap\u0159\u00edklad nepracuj\u00ed na v\u00fdvoji jadern\u00fdch zbran\u00ed, zato si neberou serv\u00edtky, co se t\u00fd\u010de sv\u00fdch soudruh\u016f, kter\u00e9 klidn\u011b se\u017eerou.<\/p>\n

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Zbran\u011b na\u0161\u00ed agrese jsme vymakali k dokonalosti, ov\u0161em prap\u016fvodn\u00ed puzen\u00ed \u0161trejchnout si dr\u00e1pem o bli\u017en\u00edho sv\u00e9ho se n\u00e1m zamaskovat nepoda\u0159ilo.<\/p>\n

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Agrese je reakc\u00ed na potenci\u00e1ln\u00ed hrozbu.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Ta je mnohdy spat\u0159ov\u00e1na nejen v konkr\u00e9tn\u00edch jedinc\u00edch, ale i v situac\u00edch \u010di prost\u0159ed\u00ed. V p\u0159\u00edrod\u011b i u \u010dlov\u011bka m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt agrese i ur\u010ditou formou hry, kter\u00e1 upev\u0148uje spole\u010densk\u00e9 postaven\u00ed jedince. Samci bojuj\u00ed o samice a teritorium.<\/p>\n

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Mnoz\u00ed jedinci na\u0161eho druhu neprojevuj\u00ed sv\u016fj agresivn\u00ed potenci\u00e1l prvotn\u011b p\u011bstmi \u010di vulgarismy na potk\u00e1n\u00ed. Mnohdy je v\u00fdhr\u016f\u017eka n\u00e1sil\u00ed nazna\u010dena nap\u0159\u00edklad v oble\u010den\u00ed, v dopl\u0148c\u00edch nebo v typu vozu, kter\u00fd si po\u0159izuj\u00ed.<\/p>\n

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T\u011b\u017e\u00ed ze spole\u010densk\u00fdch stereotyp\u016f: \u201eVypad\u00e1m jako rv\u00e1\u010d, mysli si, \u017ee jsem rv\u00e1\u010d a boj se.\u201c<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

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Drsn\u00e1 k\u00e1ra a ko\u017een\u00fd k\u0159iv\u00e1k p\u0159es rameno ov\u0161em nutn\u011b nenazna\u010duje, \u017ee na pozdrav v\u00e1m bude odpov\u011bzeno p\u011bst\u00ed. Doty\u010dn\u00fd si sychruje svou spole\u010denskou pozici a doma mo\u017en\u00e1 bre\u010d\u00ed u ve\u010derdy.<\/p>\n

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Zkr\u00e1tka a\u010d se n\u00e1m to l\u00edb\u00ed nebo ne, je s n\u00e1mi tenhle fenom\u00e9n od prav\u011bku.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Samoz\u0159ejm\u011b \u017ee agresora v n\u00e1s ovliv\u0148uj\u00ed i nau\u010den\u00e9 zp\u016fsoby chov\u00e1n\u00ed, na\u0161e v\u00fdchova, odpozorovan\u00e9 spole\u010densk\u00e9 jevy a v neposledn\u00ed \u0159ad\u011b i na\u0161e motivace pop\u0159\u00edpad\u011b tresty a vn\u00edm\u00e1n\u00ed zodpov\u011bdnosti za na\u0161e \u010diny. Nejde tedy jen o ot\u00e1zku psychologickou, ale i spole\u010denskou a politickou.<\/p>\n

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Abych to vysv\u011btlila na p\u0159\u00edkladu.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Vezm\u011bte si takov\u00e9 vybr\u017e\u010fov\u00e1n\u00ed. Borec to za\u0161l\u00e1pne n\u011bjak\u00e9 \u0161kodov\u011bnce na d\u00e1lnici, proto\u017ee jela m\u00e9n\u011b ne\u017e stopade. Pochlub\u00ed se na face booku, kamar\u00e1di ho popl\u00e1caj\u00ed po z\u00e1dech a jeho hl\u00e1\u0161ka se stane hitem internetu. N\u011bjak\u00fdm z\u00e1zrakem se borce dom\u00e1kne policie. Na z\u00e1klad\u011b chatrn\u00fdch d\u016fkaz\u016f se soudce nezm\u016f\u017ee na v\u00edc ne\u017e na podm\u00ednku, a\u010dkoliv m\u00e1 d\u011bda p\u0159edek na odpis a t\u0159i m\u011bs\u00edce \u0161pit\u00e1lskou stravu jistou.<\/p>\n

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Dostane se to do m\u00e9di\u00ed, kde n\u00e1m politik vysv\u011btl\u00ed, \u017ee si schvalovali nav\u00fd\u0161en\u00ed plat\u016f, tak\u017ee se nedostalo na vy\u0161\u0161\u00ed tresty pro pir\u00e1ty silnic. N\u00e1rod pochop\u00ed, \u017ee rusk\u00e1 ruleta na d\u00e1lnici nen\u00ed trestn\u00fd \u010din, ale n\u00e1rodn\u00ed sport.<\/p>\n

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Mechanismus agrese, kter\u00fd funguje cel\u00e1 stalet\u00ed.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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A\u010dkoliv cel\u00e1 na\u0161e historie a kultura sm\u011b\u0159uje k nen\u00e1siln\u00e9mu chov\u00e1n\u00ed a v\u00fdchov\u011b k n\u011bmu, p\u0159etrv\u00e1vaj\u00ed st\u00e1le stejn\u00e9 modely v ka\u017edodenn\u00edch situac\u00edch a konfliktech. M\u00e1me v rukou lep\u0161\u00ed zbran\u011b, v\u00fdkonn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed auta nebo jen t\u011b\u017ek\u00fd n\u00e1kupn\u00ed voz\u00edk v ruce, nejsme v\u0161ak m\u00edrumilovn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed nebo agresivn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed ne\u017e na\u0161i p\u0159edci. Jsme zkr\u00e1tka jin\u00ed.  Oni byli tak\u00e9 jin\u00ed.<\/p>\n

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Jin\u00e1 doba, jin\u00e9 prost\u0159edky.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Zdrav\u011b zpracovan\u00e1 agrese funguje tak, \u017ee si p\u0159edstav\u00edme, jak b\u00e1je\u010dn\u00e9 by bylo tu nep\u0159\u00edjemnou pan\u00ed za pultem prohodit v\u00fdlohou, ale vz\u00e1p\u011bt\u00ed si uv\u011bdom\u00edme, \u017ee je to ve st\u0159edn\u00ed Evrop\u011b trestn\u00e9 a tak pod\u011bkujeme, rozlou\u010d\u00edme se a mysl\u00edme si o n\u00ed sv\u00e9. M\u00e9n\u011b zdrav\u00e9 je sv\u00e9 na\u0161tv\u00e1n\u00ed z obchodu p\u0159en\u00e9st a zpracovat nap\u0159\u00edklad t\u00edm, \u017ee pan\u00ed u\u0161et\u0159\u00edme a nam\u00edsto toho se\u0159veme d\u011bti, man\u017eela nebo v\u0161echny hned z\u010derstva hned po p\u0159\u00edchodu je\u0161t\u011b mezi futry.<\/p>\n

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Jin\u00fd zp\u016fsob je upustit od prohozen\u00ed doty\u010dn\u00e9 v\u00fdlohou a uch\u00fdlit se k prohozen\u00ed ironick\u00e9 pozn\u00e1mky \u010di kritick\u00e9ho zhodnocen\u00ed. Verb\u00e1ln\u00ed projev by v\u0161ak nem\u011bl gradovat slovn\u00edkem \u010dtvrt\u00e9 cenov\u00e9, i kdy\u017e ten vede o\u010dividn\u011b k v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed \u00falev\u011b.<\/p>\n

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Abychom ov\u0161em nepropadli depresi z p\u0159e\u017e\u00edvaj\u00edc\u00edho neandrt\u00e1lce v n\u00e1s, je nutno podotknout i n\u011bco pozitivn\u00edho.<\/p>\n

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V d\u011btstv\u00ed n\u00e1m agresivn\u00ed pud v n\u00e1s dovolil postavit se na odpor rodi\u010d\u016fm a osamostatnit se.<\/p>\n

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V spole\u010dnosti spolu\u017e\u00e1k\u016f a spolupracovn\u00edk\u016f n\u00e1m dovolil agresor v n\u00e1s naj\u00edt sv\u00e9 j\u00e1, sv\u00e9 m\u00edsto ve spole\u010dnosti.<\/p>\n

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Agresivita v n\u00e1s n\u00e1m pom\u00e1h\u00e1 chr\u00e1nit a ur\u010dovat na\u0161i identitu. Ochrana individuality vy\u017eaduje odpor.<\/p>\n

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Neuv\u011bdom\u00edme si, kdo jsme, pokud nebude t\u011bch, kte\u0159\u00ed jsou jin\u00ed.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Ur\u010dit\u00e1 m\u00edra agresivity je zkr\u00e1tka nutn\u00e1 a pozitivn\u00ed. Je n\u00e1m vlastn\u00ed.<\/p>\n

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Stejn\u011b jako nap\u0159\u00edklad zv\u00eddavost.<\/p>\n

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T\u011bm, co nechaj\u00ed zv\u00eddavost p\u0159er\u016fst p\u0159es hlavu, se \u0159\u00edk\u00e1 klepna.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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T\u011bm, co nechaj\u00ed p\u0159er\u016fst agresi se \u0159\u00edk\u00e1 : \u201eOb\u017ealovan\u00fd, vsta\u0148te.\u201c<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Views: 22 Nen\u00ed den, aby se v\u011bt\u0161ina z n\u00e1s nedostala do styku s agresivn\u00edm chov\u00e1n\u00edm. A\u0165 jsou to na\u0161e d\u011bti ve \u0161kolce, \u0159idi\u010di po cest\u011b z pr\u00e1ce, z\u00e1kazn\u00edk, kter\u00fd nepochopil tr\u017en\u00ed ekonomiku nebo jen protiva, co v\u00e1m najel ve front\u011b u kasy p\u0159et\u00ed\u017een\u00fdm voz\u00edkem na mal\u00ed\u010dek.  I p\u0159esto jsme si nezvykli a z m\u00e9di\u00ed i spole\u010dnosti je \u010d\u00edm d\u00e1l […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":10,"featured_media":2883,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2882","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-spolecnost"],"aioseo_notices":[],"aioseo_head":"\n\t\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t