Podstata \u010dlov\u011bka a to, \u010deho je, \u010di nen\u00ed schopen, se nem\u011bn\u00ed. \u010clov\u011bk je prost\u011b n\u011bjak\u00fd a takov\u00fdm z\u016fstane. Co se m\u011bn\u00ed, jsou situace, ve kter\u00fdch se ocit\u00e1 a na kter\u00e9 reaguje. Jestli\u017ee je n\u011bkdo patn\u00e1ct let p\u0159\u00edkladn\u00fdm partnerem a v dob\u011b rozchodu se zachov\u00e1 jako s odpu\u0161t\u011bn\u00edm prase, pak je to proto, \u017ee kdesi uvnit\u0159 byl prasetem v\u017edycky. Nezm\u011bnil se. Jen okolnosti.<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n Velice obl\u00edben\u00e1 v\u011bta \u201eTakov\u00e9ho, nebo takovou ho nezn\u00e1m, stra\u0161n\u011b se zm\u011bnil\/a\u201c.<\/em><\/p>\n <\/p>\n To souhlas\u00ed.<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Nepozn\u00e1me \u010dlov\u011bka t\u0159eba za t\u0159icet let, pokud nep\u0159ijde situace, kter\u00e1 m\u00e1 ten kter\u00fd povahov\u00fd rys prov\u011b\u0159it, odkr\u00fdt.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Nepozn\u00e1me, jak se \u010dlov\u011bk um\u00ed zachovat v mezn\u00edm momentu, pokud t\u0159eba za cel\u00e9 roky nenastane.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Ono ok\u0159\u00eddlen\u00e9 \u201eL\u00c1M\u00c1N\u00cd CHLEBA\u201c m\u016f\u017ee p\u0159ij\u00edt kdykoli.<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n A pak p\u0159ich\u00e1z\u00ed tak\u00e9 v\u011bta \u201enaprosto jsem nev\u011bd\u011bla, s k\u00fdm jsem \u017eila. Jak se mohl takhle zm\u011bnit\u201c. <\/em>(plat\u00ed oboupohlavn\u011b).<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Nezm\u011bnil se. V\u017edycky takov\u00fd byl.<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Jen prost\u011b nenastala situace, kter\u00e1 by odkryla skute\u010dnou tv\u00e1\u0159.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Jako kdy\u017e se otev\u0159e krabice.<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Nastane-li ta chv\u00edle, m\u016f\u017eeme b\u00fdt zna\u010dn\u011b p\u0159ekvapeni.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n A to i p\u0159\u00edjemn\u011b.<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n KRABICE \u201eA\u201c<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n P\u0159edstavte si, \u017ee m\u00e1te vedle sebe \u010dlov\u011bka, se kter\u00fdm se zh\u00e1d\u00e1te pomalu t\u0159ikr\u00e1t denn\u011b, jeho n\u00e1zory v\u00e1m p\u0159ijdou zcestn\u00e9, jeho projev v\u00e1s popouz\u00ed, chov\u00e1n\u00ed je s va\u0161\u00edm neslu\u010diteln\u00e9 a jeho charakterov\u00fd kredit byste hodnotili v m\u00ednusov\u00fdch \u010d\u00edslech. V z\u00e1sad\u011b nabudete dojmu, \u017ee to je stra\u0161n\u00fd lump, blbec, ned\u00e1 se s n\u00edm fungovat a kolo byste si o n\u011bj neop\u0159eli.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n KRABICE \u201eB\u201c<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Mil\u00fd, v\u017edycky slu\u0161n\u00fd, s v\u00e1mi kompatibiln\u00ed. M\u00e1 n\u00e1zory, se kter\u00fdmi se ztoto\u017en\u00edte, s ohledem na to, co \u0159\u00edk\u00e1, je pro v\u00e1s d\u016fv\u011bryhodn\u00fd, a jste p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010deni, \u017ee pokud byste m\u011bli hledat n\u011bkde oporu, bude to pr\u00e1v\u011b jeho adresa.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n A p\u0159ijde l\u00e1m\u00e1n\u00ed chleba.<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n S ob\u011bma lidmi se t\u0159eba ocitnete v situaci, kdy v r\u00e1mci p\u0159\u00edpadn\u00e9 pomoci v\u00e1m, vy\u017eaduje takov\u00fd akt i ob\u011b\u0165 ze strany pom\u00e1haj\u00edc\u00edho, jin\u00fdmi slovy i on se dostane do komplikac\u00ed, nebo nelehk\u00e9ho postaven\u00ed.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Zcela automaticky o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1te state\u010dnost, f\u00e9rovost, pomoc, oporu \u2026 <\/strong>(p\u0159ijde na to) od \u201eb\u00e9\u010dka\u201c.<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Jenom\u017ee tu pomocnou ruku a dokonce zast\u00e1n\u00ed, ohled, odpov\u011bdnost i ochranu v\u00e1m poskytne \u201e\u00e1\u010dko\u201c.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n A b\u00e9\u010dko?<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Nepochop\u00edte, co z n\u011bho poleze, jak\u00fd zvrat v chov\u00e1n\u00ed nastane, jak neuv\u011b\u0159iteln\u011b bezohledn\u011b, sobecky a zle se zachov\u00e1 osoba, do kter\u00e9 byste \u201eto v \u017eivot\u011b ne\u0159ekli\u201c.<\/em><\/p>\n <\/p>\n \u017de by se zm\u011bnili?<\/p>\n N\u011bco je zm\u011bnilo?<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Kdepak.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Ti lid\u00e9 byli v\u017edycky stejn\u00ed.<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Jednodu\u0161e jste nem\u011bli mo\u017enost tu skute\u010dnou a z\u00e1sadn\u00ed tv\u00e1\u0159 objevit.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Ho\u010fte ty dv\u011b krabice do kr\u00e1sn\u00e9 zahrady, ho\u010fte je do smradlav\u00e9 \u017eumpy, jejich vnit\u0159n\u00ed prostor se nezm\u011bn\u00ed.<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Otev\u0159e se hezk\u00e1 krabice v zahrad\u011b a zasmrad\u00ed ji tak, \u017ee z n\u00ed tu \u017eumpu ud\u011bl\u00e1. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Ho\u010fte ji do \u017eumy a obsah po otev\u0159en\u00ed nepozn\u00e1te od okol\u00ed.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Ho\u010fte do zahrady \u0161pinavou krabici a po otev\u0159en\u00ed z\u016fstane obal, zat\u00edmco obsah splyne s okol\u00edm.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Ho\u010fte ji do \u017eumpy, a by\u0165 na obale nepozn\u00e1te rozd\u00edl, po otev\u0159en\u00ed ud\u011bl\u00e1 z \u017eumpy zahradu.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n <\/p>\n P\u0159ekvapeni?<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n V\u017edycky.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Existuje na to velk\u00e1 spousta po\u0159ekadel, jsou notoricky zn\u00e1m\u00e1, znaj\u00ed je v\u0161echny jazyky i kultury, zn\u00e1 je ka\u017ed\u00fd z n\u00e1s.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n P\u0159esto jsme poka\u017ed\u00e9 v \u00fadivu.<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Inu, v nouzi pozn\u00e1\u0161 p\u0159\u00edtele a tak to skute\u010dn\u011b je.<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n V\u016fbec se p\u0159itom nemusel jevit jako p\u0159\u00edtel.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n A ten, kdo se j\u00edm zd\u00e1l b\u00fdt\u2026<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Nikdo nep\u0159i\u0161el a nevym\u011bnil obsahy krabic.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Jenom prost\u011b nastala chv\u00edle, kter\u00e1 je otev\u0159ela.<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n To je cel\u00e9.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n \u010clov\u011bk m\u00e1 z\u00e1kladn\u00ed charakter.<\/p>\n Je prost\u011b uvnit\u0159 n\u011bjak\u00fd a to se nem\u011bn\u00ed.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n M\u016f\u017ee nab\u00fdt zku\u0161enost\u00ed, zklidnit se, doj\u00edt vy\u0161\u0161\u00edch hodnot a t\u0159eba zm\u011bnit n\u00e1zory \u010di taktiku a p\u0159\u00edstup \u2026 to v\u0161echno ano. To jde s v\u011bkem, se zku\u0161enostmi, s duchovn\u00ed dosp\u00edv\u00e1n\u00edm.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Ov\u0161em jeho krabice m\u00e1 st\u00e1le tent\u00fd\u017e z\u00e1kladn\u00ed kapit\u00e1l.<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n A jednou se otev\u0159e.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Zahrada, nebo \u017eumpa?<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Nezn\u00e1me obsah sv\u00fdch vlastn\u00edch krabic, dokud se neotev\u0159ou.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Nato\u017epak t\u011bch ostatn\u00edch.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n A nemus\u00edme to zjistit po cel\u00fd \u017eivot.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Jednodu\u0161e proto, \u017ee ta situace nikdy nep\u0159ijde.<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n Proto\u017ee i kdybychom si d\u00e1vali sebev\u011bt\u0161\u00ed pozor, pokud nastane ten moment, zachov\u00e1me se p\u0159esn\u011b podle toho, co v n\u00e1s je.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Tu krabici toti\u017e neotev\u00edr\u00e1me my, ale onen moment.<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n Michaela Kudl\u00e1\u010dkov\u00e1<\/em><\/p>\n [sexy_author_bio]<\/p>\n Views: 8 Podstata \u010dlov\u011bka a to, \u010deho je, \u010di nen\u00ed schopen, se nem\u011bn\u00ed. \u010clov\u011bk je prost\u011b n\u011bjak\u00fd a takov\u00fdm z\u016fstane. 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