{"id":20949,"date":"2023-02-20T16:21:26","date_gmt":"2023-02-20T15:21:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/popelky.cz\/?p=20949"},"modified":"2023-02-20T17:52:22","modified_gmt":"2023-02-20T16:52:22","slug":"maly-velky-coming-out","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/popelky.cz\/verze7-0\/vztahy\/maly-velky-coming-out.html","title":{"rendered":"Mal\u00fd velk\u00fd coming out"},"content":{"rendered":"

Views: 122<\/p>

Coming out of the closet – vystoupen\u00ed ze sk\u0159\u00edn\u011b, \u010di z kom\u016frky – pozd\u011bji zkr\u00e1cen\u00e9 jen na Coming out, je metafora, kterou se v\u017eila hlavn\u011b k p\u0159izn\u00e1n\u00ed jin\u00e9 ne\u017e v\u011bt\u0161inov\u00e9 sexu\u00e1ln\u00ed orientace. V\u00fdznam t\u00e9to metafory je jasn\u00fd, to co jsme schov\u00e1vali, skryt\u00e9 coby tajemstv\u00ed, sd\u011bl\u00edme sv\u00e9mu okol\u00ed. Pro\u010d lid\u00e9 svou homosexualitu \u010di jinou odli\u0161nost od v\u011bt\u0161inov\u00e9 spole\u010dnosti tajili je jasn\u00e9.\"comingNebyli by rodinou, p\u0159\u00e1teli, komunitou, spole\u010dnost\u00ed p\u0159ijati. Rodina se jich mohla z\u0159eknout, n\u00e1bo\u017eensk\u00e9 komunity ostrakizovat, kolegov\u00e9 by jim mohli ztrp\u010dit pracovn\u00ed prost\u0159ed\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Probl\u00e9m se skr\u00fdv\u00e1n\u00edm je ten, \u017ee dan\u00fd \u010dlov\u011bk pak nem\u016f\u017ee voln\u011b \u017e\u00edt a sd\u00edlet sv\u016fj \u017eivot. Nem\u016f\u017ee \u0159\u00edct rodi\u010d\u016fm, \u017ee dom\u016f nep\u0159ivede nev\u011bstu, ale \u017eenicha. Boj\u00ed se sd\u00edlet to, co je pro n\u011bj v \u017eivot\u011b jedna s nejd\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00edch v\u011bc\u00ed. Coming out je potom akt odvahy. Sd\u00edlet to, co mo\u017en\u00e1 bude odm\u00edtnuto. Riskovat odm\u00edtnut\u00ed, v\u00fdsm\u011bch, ztr\u00e1tu rodiny, p\u0159\u00e1tel nebo pr\u00e1ce.<\/p>\n

Tento t\u00fdden se sv\u00fdm coming outem projevil velkou odvahu fotbalista Sparty Jakub Jankto.\u00a0Pro\u010d velkou odvahu?<\/p>\n

Proto\u017ee i kdy\u017e se r\u00e1di jako \u010desk\u00e1 spole\u010dnost pova\u017eujeme za vst\u0159\u00edcn\u00e9 a ch\u00e1paj\u00edc\u00ed, a poukazujeme nap\u0159\u00edklad na toleranci n\u00e1bo\u017eenskou, v zemi p\u0159evl\u00e1daj\u00edc\u00edch ateist\u016f \u010di vla\u017en\u00fdch katol\u00edk\u016f, mo\u017en\u00e1 je\u0161t\u011b \u00fapln\u011b vst\u0159\u00edcn\u00ed a ch\u00e1paj\u00edc\u00ed nejsme. Poj\u010fme si to uk\u00e1zat nap\u0159\u00edklad na pr\u016fzkumech o man\u017eelstv\u00ed pro v\u0161echny. V roce 2021 ho v pr\u016fzkumu za dobr\u00fd n\u00e1pad pova\u017eovalo 65 % \u010cech\u016f. Dv\u011b t\u0159etiny dot\u00e1zan\u00fdch tedy o\u010dividn\u011b s LGBTQ komunitou probl\u00e9m nemaj\u00ed. Po\u0159\u00e1d ale jedna t\u0159etina je p\u0159ipraven\u00e1 diskriminovat na z\u00e1klad\u011b sexu\u00e1ln\u00ed orientace. To nen\u00ed m\u00e1lo.<\/p>\n

Pro\u010d se d\u011bl\u00e1 takov\u00fd humbug kolem coming outu fotbalisty? Ptali se n\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed. Proto\u017ee byl mezi na\u0161imi fotbalisty \u00fapln\u011b prvn\u00ed, kter\u00fd coming out ud\u011blal b\u011bhem sv\u00e9 aktivn\u00ed kari\u00e9ry. Z vrcholov\u00fdch sportovc\u016f \u010dtvrt\u00fd, jako mu\u017e prvn\u00ed. P\u0159ed n\u00edm ud\u011blaly sv\u016fj coming out ve\u0159ejn\u011b jen t\u0159i vrcholov\u00e9 sportovkyn\u011b. O\u010dividn\u011b tedy jako spole\u010dnost na jedince, kte\u0159\u00ed by mohli a pravd\u011bpodobn\u011b cht\u011bli b\u00fdt se sv\u00fdm \u017eivotem a p\u0159irozenost\u00ed otev\u0159en\u00ed, moc tolerantn\u011b nep\u016fsob\u00edme.<\/p>\n

Fotbal, a kolektivn\u00ed sporty v\u016fbec, jsou v\u011bt\u0161inov\u011b maskulinn\u00ed. Jejich fanou\u0161ci jsou plni emoc\u00ed, kter\u00e9 se neboj\u00ed ventilovat. Sezn\u00e1mit spole\u010dnost se svou orientac\u00ed bylo proto v mu\u017esk\u00e9m sportu tabu. Nyn\u00ed tabu bylo prolomeno a zd\u00e1 se, \u017ee na\u0161e spole\u010dnost snad u\u017e je dostate\u010dn\u011b vysp\u011bl\u00e1. V\u011bt\u0161ina reakc\u00ed jak z fotbalov\u00e9ho prost\u0159ed\u00ed toti\u017e byla pozitivn\u00ed a podporuj\u00edc\u00ed, a to nejen od klubu, ale i od fanou\u0161k\u016f. Z prost\u0159ed\u00ed soci\u00e1ln\u00edch s\u00edt\u00ed, kter\u00e9 tak\u00e9 um\u00ed b\u00fdt velice krut\u00e9, zn\u00ed uzn\u00e1n\u00ed za odvahu a podpora.<\/p>\n

Je tedy nad\u011bje, \u017ee Jakub Jankto, sv\u00fdm postojem dod\u00e1 nad\u011bji i odvahu i dal\u0161\u00edm lidem, kte\u0159\u00ed se ob\u00e1vaj\u00ed p\u0159ihl\u00e1sit k tomu, co je jim vlastn\u00ed.<\/p>\n

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V\u0161echny reakce na coming out fotbalisty samoz\u0159ejm\u011b pozitivn\u00ed nejsou. Asi nejv\u00edce z kritik\u016f byl sly\u0161et b\u00fdval\u00fd hv\u011bzdn\u00fd fotbalista Ladislav V\u00edzek, kter\u00fd ve vys\u00edl\u00e1n\u00ed st\u00e1tn\u00ed televize prohl\u00e1sil, \u017ee Jankt\u016fv p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh je smutn\u00fd a jeho orientace do p\u0159\u00edrody nepat\u0159\u00ed. Samoz\u0159ejm\u011b v tomhle p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b si m\u016f\u017eeme myslet, co je ve skute\u010dnosti smutn\u00e9. Argumentovat se d\u00e1 i proti druh\u00e9 \u010d\u00e1sti tvrzen\u00ed. Homosexu\u00e1ln\u00ed chov\u00e1n\u00ed do p\u0159\u00edrody pat\u0159\u00ed. \u010clov\u011bk rozhodn\u011b nen\u00ed jedin\u00fd \u017eivo\u010di\u0161n\u00fd druh, jeho\u017e \u010d\u00e1st jedinc\u016f m\u00e1 homosexu\u00e1ln\u00ed orientaci. Toto chov\u00e1n\u00ed bylo ji\u017e v\u011bdci pozorov\u00e1no u v\u00edce ne\u017e 1500 druh\u016f zv\u00ed\u0159at. Homosexu\u00e1ln\u00ed chov\u00e1n\u00ed bylo zji\u0161t\u011bno u savc\u016f v\u010detn\u011b kosatek a delf\u00edn\u016f, i mezi pt\u00e1ky.<\/p>\n

Sv\u00fdm postojem Ladislav V\u00edzek potvrdil rozbor sociologa Daniela Prokopa, kter\u00fd v roce 2022 vyhodnotil n\u011bkolik pr\u016fzkum\u016f na t\u00e9ma LGBTQ a z dat vyvodil, \u017ee odm\u00edtav\u00fd postoj k t\u00e9to komunit\u011b maj\u00ed zejm\u00e9na mu\u017ei star\u0161\u00ed 45 let a pak v\u011bkov\u00e1 skupina nad 60 let, kde se p\u0159\u00edstup mu\u017e\u016f a \u017een p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 neli\u0161il.<\/p>\n

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V rozhovoru pro Radio\u017eurn\u00e1l Jankto vyjevil, \u017ee rozhodnut\u00ed p\u0159ij\u00edt se sv\u00fdm coming outem bylo t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9, ale je za n\u011bj zp\u011btn\u011b r\u00e1d. Doslova prohl\u00e1sil: „<\/strong><\/span>T<\/strong>e\u010f kone\u010dn\u011b m\u016f\u017eu \u017e\u00edt tak, jak chci j\u00e1. To pro m\u011b bylo nejd\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed.\u201c\u00a0<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Mo\u017en\u00e1 si tedy dodaj\u00ed odvahu i dal\u0161\u00ed, a nejen sportovci.<\/p>\n

Mil\u00e1 M\u00edla<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Views: 122Coming out of the closet – vystoupen\u00ed ze sk\u0159\u00edn\u011b, \u010di z kom\u016frky – pozd\u011bji zkr\u00e1cen\u00e9 jen na Coming out, je metafora, kterou se v\u017eila hlavn\u011b k p\u0159izn\u00e1n\u00ed jin\u00e9 ne\u017e v\u011bt\u0161inov\u00e9 sexu\u00e1ln\u00ed orientace. V\u00fdznam t\u00e9to metafory je jasn\u00fd, to co jsme schov\u00e1vali, skryt\u00e9 coby tajemstv\u00ed, sd\u011bl\u00edme sv\u00e9mu okol\u00ed. Pro\u010d lid\u00e9 svou homosexualitu \u010di jinou odli\u0161nost […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":576,"featured_media":20967,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20949","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-vztahy"],"aioseo_notices":[],"aioseo_head":"\n\t\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t