{"id":15302,"date":"2022-01-13T00:41:19","date_gmt":"2022-01-12T23:41:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/popelky.cz\/?p=15302"},"modified":"2023-01-19T17:05:02","modified_gmt":"2023-01-19T16:05:02","slug":"lise-leblane-sebepece-pro-pecujici","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/popelky.cz\/verze7-0\/spolecnost\/lise-leblane-sebepece-pro-pecujici.html","title":{"rendered":"Lise Leblanc: Sebep\u00e9\u010de pro pe\u010duj\u00edc\u00ed"},"content":{"rendered":"

Views: 111<\/p>

Maminky, pe\u010duj\u00edc\u00ed osoby, \u017eeny vystaven\u00e9 nep\u0159im\u011b\u0159en\u00e9 emo\u010dn\u00ed i fyzick\u00e9 z\u00e1t\u011b\u017ei spojen\u00e9 s nutnost\u00ed chr\u00e1nit a pe\u010dovat o n\u011bco\/n\u011bkoho, koho miluj\u00ed nebo ke komu c\u00edt\u00ed povinnost. Jak jen ve zkratce pov\u011bd\u011bt, pro koho kniha je? Nav\u00edc kniha otv\u00edr\u00e1 t\u00e9mat mnohem v\u00edc, t\u00e9mat v\u00edc ne\u017e nitern\u00fdch.<\/p>\n

A\u017e u t\u00e9to knihy mi pln\u011b do\u0161lo, \u017ee jste-li vystaveni stresov\u00e9 situaci p\u00e9\u010de o kohokoliv, p\u00e9\u010de velmi n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00e9 a vysiluj\u00edc\u00ed psychicky i fyzicky, je to doslova otev\u0159en\u00e1 br\u00e1na vlastn\u00edm traumat\u016fm z minulosti a d\u011btstv\u00ed. Velmi snadno jsem se rozpomn\u011bla na podobn\u00e9 situace a jen v\u011bdom\u00ed, \u017ee pr\u00e1v\u011b tady se st\u00e1v\u00e1m bolavou \u010d\u00e1st\u00ed sebe sam\u00e9, tou zran\u011bnou a nikdy nevyl\u00e9\u010denou, \u017ee nutnost pe\u010dovat o n\u011bkoho dal\u0161\u00edho jen r\u00fdpe v ran\u00e1ch, bylo \u00falevn\u00e9.<\/p>\n

P\u0159\u00edle\u017eitost zes\u00edlit<\/strong><\/p>\n

Kniha Sebep\u00e9\u010de pro pe\u010duj\u00edc\u00ed je laskav\u00fdm, ale hlavn\u011b velmi praktick\u00fdm pr\u016fvodcem situac\u00ed, kdy jste t\u00e9to z\u00e1t\u011b\u017ei vystaveni. A t\u0159eba pro mne bylo z\u00e1sadn\u00ed to uv\u011bdom\u011bn\u00ed, \u017ee tady nen\u00ed jen z\u00e1t\u011b\u017e cel\u00e9 situace, ale \u017ee v\u0161echno m\u016f\u017ee mnohdy a\u017e prvotn\u011b nelogicky zt\u011b\u017eovat je\u0161t\u011b n\u011bco zasunut\u00e9ho velmi hluboko. Vlastn\u00ed traumata. A tady bych t\u0159eba doporu\u010dila to, co doporu\u010duje kniha \u2013 Najd\u011bte si kou\u010de. I tomu tu je v\u011bnov\u00e1na kapitola, kterou jsem s chut\u00ed p\u0159e\u010detla. P\u0159esto mus\u00edm \u0159\u00edci, \u017ee kniha je sama tro\u0161ku o tom, \u017ee sed\u00edte s n\u011bk\u00fdm, kdo v\u00ed, v jak\u00e9 situaci se nach\u00e1z\u00edte a umo\u017e\u0148uje v\u00e1m ji \u0159e\u0161it. Pro n\u011bkoho pak takov\u00e1 situace m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt p\u0159\u00edle\u017eitost\u00ed zes\u00edlit t\u00edm, \u017ee se nav\u017edy vypo\u0159\u00e1d\u00e1te s p\u0159ecitliv\u011blou ranou ve sv\u00e9 vlastn\u00ed minulosti.<\/p>\n

Kniha otv\u00edr\u00e1 r\u016fzn\u00e9 komnaty.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Pokl\u00e1d\u00e1 nejr\u016fzn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed ot\u00e1zky, z nich\u017e n\u011bkter\u00e9 jsou velmi intimn\u00ed a hluboko m\u00ed\u0159\u00edc\u00ed.<\/p>\n

A nut\u00ed n\u00e1s hledat pravdy, osvobozen\u00ed, n\u011bhu, l\u00e1sku a a\u017e na sam\u00e9m dn\u011b poznat, \u017ee d\u011bl\u00e1me nejl\u00e9pe, jak um\u00edme. A \u017ee i my sami pot\u0159ebujeme n\u011bhu, l\u00e1sku a p\u00e9\u010di.<\/p>\n

A jestli to bude m\u00edt podobu ochrany p\u0159ed \u00fato\u010d\u00edc\u00edm okol\u00edm, p\u0159ed p\u0159et\u00ed\u017een\u00edm t\u00edm, \u017ee sv\u00e9 b\u0159\u00edm\u011b rozlo\u017e\u00edme, nebo z\u00e1zra\u010dn\u00fd \u00fa\u010dinek bude m\u00edt mas\u00e1\u017e nebo pouh\u00e9 vypov\u00edd\u00e1n\u00ed se \u2013 to u\u017e bude z\u00e1le\u017eet na ka\u017ed\u00e9 situaci.<\/p>\n

Jin\u00fd \u010dten\u00e1\u0159 zase najde v knize pr\u00e1v\u011b tu praktickou \u010d\u00e1st, ve kter\u00e9 pochop\u00ed situaci, ve kter\u00e9 se ocitl. Najde v n\u00ed smysl. Najde v sob\u011b l\u00e1sku. Pos\u00edl\u00ed ji. Nech\u00e1 l\u00e1sku odpo\u010dinout, aby mohla zase z\u00e1\u0159it. Praktick\u00fdmi tipy a ot\u00e1zkami najde v sob\u011b skryt\u00e1 z\u00e1kout\u00ed, kter\u00e1 i p\u0159es ve\u0161ker\u00e9 vy\u010derp\u00e1n\u00ed mohou b\u00fdt zalita soucitem, ze kter\u00e9ho pak \u010derp\u00e1te nejen jako pe\u010dovatel, ale i ten, o koho je pe\u010dov\u00e1no.<\/p>\n

Pravidla l\u00e1sky, nutnost povinnosti<\/strong><\/p>\n

Snaha porozum\u011bt, snaha nastavit pravidla v mez\u00edch l\u00e1sky jsou asi hlavn\u00edmi nosn\u00fdmi body. Kniha je sice z kanadsk\u00e9ho prost\u0159ed\u00ed, ale emoce a probl\u00e9my jsou s t\u011bmi na\u0161imi shodn\u00e9. V tomto sm\u011bru je to kniha nesm\u00edrn\u011b osv\u011btov\u00e1 a neboj\u00edm se \u0159\u00edci, \u017ee jej\u00ed z\u00e1klady by se m\u011bly ve\u0159ejn\u011b prob\u00edrat \u010dast\u011bji ne\u017e cokoliv jin\u00e9ho. Nem\u00e1m toti\u017e pocit, \u017ee jde jen o p\u00e9\u010di pro pe\u010duj\u00edc\u00ed osoby, ale o p\u00e9\u010di o ka\u017edou nep\u0159im\u011b\u0159en\u011b zat\u00ed\u017eenou osobu.<\/p>\n

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O p\u00e9\u010di z l\u00e1sky, o p\u00e9\u010di z povinnosti \u2013 v\u0161e se nakonec m\u016f\u017ee prol\u00ednat. <\/strong><\/p>\n

V obou p\u0159\u00edpadech je ale d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 v\u011bd\u011bt v ka\u017ed\u00e9 chv\u00edli a f\u00e1zi, kde se nach\u00e1z\u00edte a co se kolem v\u00e1s d\u011bje. A jak jsem poznala t\u0159eba j\u00e1 \u2013 pro\u010d se d\u011bje to, co je zd\u00e1nliv\u011b nelogick\u00e9, pro\u010d se pozn\u00e1v\u00e1te v n\u011bkom\u2026 proto\u017ee jste to kdysi za\u017eili. Proto\u017ee to tady u\u017e bylo. Proto\u017ee t\u0159eba pr\u00e1v\u011b ta minulost.<\/p>\n

Ale n\u00e1m\u011bt\u016f a sm\u011br\u016f je v knize mnoho, tak\u017ee sic kn\u00ed\u017ee\u010dka \u00fatl\u00e1 a mal\u00e1, ale velkolep\u00e1 sv\u00fdm obsahem. A tak\u00e9 zpov\u011b\u010fmi lid\u00ed, kte\u0159\u00ed pe\u010duj\u00ed. Jejich nitern\u00fdmi my\u0161lenkami. Tak lidsk\u00fdmi.<\/p>\n

Autorka<\/strong>: Lise Leblanc je registrovan\u00e1 psychoterapeutka, pe\u010dovatelka a odbornice na \u0159e\u0161en\u00ed konflikt\u016f. Nejen studium, ale i vlastn\u00ed zku\u0161enost ji dovedly k naps\u00e1n\u00ed t\u00e9to knihy, v\u011bnuje se t\u00e9\u017e t\u00e9matu truchlen\u00ed a posttraumatick\u00e9 stresov\u00e9 poru\u0161e. <\/span><\/p>\n

Vydala Alferia, https:\/\/www.grada.cz\/sebepece-pro-pecujici-11735<\/span><\/p>\n

Renata Pet\u0159\u00ed\u010dkov\u00e1<\/em><\/p>\n

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Views: 111Maminky, pe\u010duj\u00edc\u00ed osoby, \u017eeny vystaven\u00e9 nep\u0159im\u011b\u0159en\u00e9 emo\u010dn\u00ed i fyzick\u00e9 z\u00e1t\u011b\u017ei spojen\u00e9 s nutnost\u00ed chr\u00e1nit a pe\u010dovat o n\u011bco\/n\u011bkoho, koho miluj\u00ed nebo ke komu c\u00edt\u00ed povinnost. Jak jen ve zkratce pov\u011bd\u011bt, pro koho kniha je? Nav\u00edc kniha otv\u00edr\u00e1 t\u00e9mat mnohem v\u00edc, t\u00e9mat v\u00edc ne\u017e nitern\u00fdch.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":9,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-15302","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-spolecnost"],"aioseo_notices":[],"aioseo_head":"\n\t\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t