{"id":11873,"date":"2020-01-15T00:01:53","date_gmt":"2020-01-14T23:01:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/popelky.cz\/pokus_sablona\/?p=11873"},"modified":"2020-01-17T18:11:10","modified_gmt":"2020-01-17T17:11:10","slug":"eva-mariea-zurhorst-soulsex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/popelky.cz\/verze7-0\/vztahy\/eva-mariea-zurhorst-soulsex.html","title":{"rendered":"Eva-Mariea Zurhorst: Soulsex"},"content":{"rendered":"

Views: 357<\/p>

Prvotn\u00ed je kniha ur\u010dena t\u011bm, kte\u0159\u00ed cht\u011bj\u00ed opravit sv\u016fj vztah k partnerovi \u010di sami k sob\u011b a v\u011bd\u00ed, \u017ee n\u011bco v jejich sexu\u00e1ln\u00edm \u017eivot\u011b je smutn\u00e9, neuspokojuj\u00edc\u00ed, traumatizuj\u00edc\u00ed. Ne, v\u017edycky za to v\u00e1\u0161 partner nem\u016f\u017ee, v\u017edycky jsou na to pot\u0159eba dva. Je pot\u0159eba dos\u00e1hnout pocitu bezpe\u010d\u00ed.<\/p>\n

\u201ePocity, a\u010d jsou neviditeln\u00e9, jsou p\u0159esto pln\u00e9 informac\u00ed a mohou m\u00edt siln\u00fd vliv na cel\u00e9 na\u0161e pro\u017e\u00edv\u00e1n\u00ed. Strach a deprese mohou \u010dlov\u011bka dohnat k sebevra\u017ed\u011b. Pocity \u0161t\u011bst\u00ed n\u00e1m mohou umo\u017enit p\u0159er\u016fst sebe sama. V\u0161ichni u\u017e v mat\u010din\u011b l\u016fn\u011b rosteme obklopeni neviditeln\u00fdm rodinn\u00fdm informa\u010dn\u00edm polem, kter\u00e9 n\u00e1s formuje a ze kter\u00e9ho si do sebe \u201estahujeme\u201c a nahr\u00e1v\u00e1me v\u0161echny rodinn\u00e9 programy a data. I data obsahuj\u00edc\u00ed traumata, bolest a strach. A to i kdy\u017e jsou ulo\u017eena ve skryt\u00fdch slo\u017ek\u00e1ch.\u201c<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

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Autorka zach\u00e1z\u00ed velmi hluboko, v\u00edme ji\u017e, \u017ee na na\u0161ich sexu\u00e1ln\u00edch traumatech a nevyda\u0159en\u00fdch vztaz\u00edch se m\u016f\u017ee projevit to, co n\u00e1m rodi\u010de, \u010dasto i nev\u011bdomky, p\u0159ed\u00e1vali, chyb\u011bj\u00edc\u00ed bl\u00edzkost, po\u0161lapan\u00e9 jemn\u00e9 touhy, pro\u017eit\u00e1 traumata, cel\u00fd n\u00e1\u0161 otisk du\u0161e.<\/p>\n

V jak\u00e9m stavu je v\u00e1\u0161 vztah k sexu?<\/p>\n

Tak p\u0159esn\u011b tak je na tom va\u0161e du\u0161e.<\/p>\n

Z pevn\u00fdch slupek do otev\u0159en\u00e9ho t\u011bla<\/strong><\/p>\n

Jak vypad\u00e1 star\u00fd sex, kter\u00fd nemus\u00ed b\u00fdt v\u017edy uspokojuj\u00edc\u00ed a v n\u011bm\u017e bez z\u00e1bran pro\u017e\u00edv\u00e1me to, co n\u00e1m bylo od\u0148ato jako mal\u00fdm d\u011btem, vynucujeme si, jsme l\u00edtostiv\u00ed, jsme dominantn\u00ed i submisivn\u00ed, trest\u00e1me se i pro\u017e\u00edv\u00e1me v\u00edt\u011bzstv\u00ed \u2013 je skute\u010dn\u011b nutn\u00e1 tato dynamika sexu? Nelze b\u00fdt v\u00edc v souladu a t\u00edm m\u00edt v\u00edc v souladu nejen cel\u00fd partnersk\u00fd vztah, ale i vztah k sob\u011b sam\u00fdm?<\/p>\n

V t\u00e9to \u010d\u00e1sti m\u00e1me mo\u017enost pochopit i odplakat, proto\u017ee \u201ekone\u010dn\u011b to n\u011bkdo pojmenoval\u201c sv\u016fj emocion\u00e1ln\u00ed hlad, touhy, bolesti, ze kter\u00fdch vznikaj\u00ed tuh\u00e9 krun\u00fd\u0159e. Pochopit, \u017ee n\u011bco nen\u00ed \u0161patn\u011b s n\u00e1mi samotn\u00fdmi, ale s t\u00edm, jak s n\u00e1mi bylo nakl\u00e1d\u00e1no, co jsme si sami p\u0159i\u017eivili a z\u016fst\u00e1v\u00e1 to nepochopeno. Tud\u00ed\u017e z toho nem\u016f\u017eeme naj\u00edt cestu ven. V\u011b\u0159te, \u017ee intuice v\u00e1m p\u0159i \u010dten\u00ed t\u00e9to knihy velmi pom\u016f\u017ee a p\u0159esn\u011b v\u00e1s navede tam, kde uc\u00edt\u00edte probl\u00e9m.<\/p>\n

Nov\u00fd sex<\/strong><\/p>\n

Druh\u00e1 \u010d\u00e1st knihy je u\u017e o pomal\u00e9m p\u011bstov\u00e1n\u00ed d\u016fv\u011bry a o praxi, kter\u00e1 je v podstat\u011b o tom, \u017ee cokoliv v\u00e1m kdo \u0159ekl o \u201eman\u017eelsk\u00e9m sexu\u201c, je v podstat\u011b nepravda. Nach\u00e1z\u00edme spole\u010dn\u011b cesty, jak se c\u00edtit v sexu\u00e1ln\u00ed oblasti pln\u00e1 energie, potenci\u00e1lu a objas\u0148uje i to, pro\u010d se \u017eeny n\u011bkdy c\u00edt\u00ed po sexu zanesen\u00e9, otr\u00e1ven\u00e9, otrhan\u00e9. Znovu tu n\u011bkter\u00e9 \u010d\u00e1sti p\u0159esahuj\u00ed do \u201estar\u00e9ho sexu\u201c a do traumat, proto\u017ee je t\u0159eba je st\u00e1le d\u00e1vat do souvislost\u00ed a z\u00e1rove\u0148 s velkou d\u00e1vkou trp\u011blivosti ch\u00e1pat, \u017ee pokud chcete n\u011bco zlep\u0161it, doslova vstupujete na minov\u00e9 pole pln\u00e9 pochybnost\u00ed, na\u0161ept\u00e1va\u010d\u016f, strach\u016f a do sv\u00e9ho vlastn\u00edho nitra, kter\u00e9 je hlub\u0161\u00ed, ne\u017e si mysl\u00edte.<\/p>\n

\"cl\"<\/p>\n

Ale v\u00fdsledkem je obrovsk\u00e9 osvobozen\u00ed.<\/p>\n

\u201eProto jsem \u017eena, j\u00e1 to tu\u0161ila!\u201c<\/em> <\/span>to je v\u011bta, kterou to cel\u00e9 m\u016f\u017ee kon\u010dit. I kdy\u017e vlastn\u011b\u2026 za\u010d\u00ednat.<\/p>\n

\"eva<\/p>\n

O AUTORCE:<\/span><\/p>\n

Eva-Maria Zurhorst je nejzn\u00e1m\u011bj\u0161\u00ed n\u011bmeck\u00e1 vztahov\u00e1 poradkyn\u011b a autorka \u0159ady bestseller\u016f. Svou p\u016fvodn\u00ed profesi novin\u00e1\u0159ky vykon\u00e1vala nap\u0159\u00edklad v Jihoafrick\u00e9 republice a Egypt\u011b. Pozd\u011bji se jako komunika\u010dn\u00ed poradkyn\u011b p\u0159esunula do sf\u00e9ry ekonomiky. Po absolvov\u00e1n\u00ed dodate\u010dn\u00e9ho psychoterapeutick\u00e9ho v\u00fdcviku dnes se sv\u00fdm mu\u017eem Wolframem p\u016fsob\u00ed jako vztahov\u00fd kou\u010d a kou\u010d pro rozvoj kari\u00e9ry. Jej\u00ed knihy byly p\u0159elo\u017eeny do 17 jazyk\u016f.<\/span><\/p>\n

Vydalo nakladatelstv\u00ed Synergie Publishing SE, 2019, www.synergiepublishing.com<\/a><\/p>\n

Renata Pet\u0159\u00ed\u010dkov\u00e1<\/em><\/p>\n

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