{"id":11565,"date":"2019-12-12T09:57:15","date_gmt":"2019-12-12T08:57:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/popelky.cz\/pokus_sablona\/?p=11565"},"modified":"2020-01-01T17:09:53","modified_gmt":"2020-01-01T16:09:53","slug":"jak-se-to-chovas-o-vanocich","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/popelky.cz\/verze7-0\/vztahy\/jak-se-to-chovas-o-vanocich.html","title":{"rendered":"Jak se to chov\u00e1\u0161 o V\u00e1noc\u00edch?!"},"content":{"rendered":"

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V\u00e1noce! Budeme na sebe hodn\u00ed! Ch\u00e1pu, \u017ee se nab\u00edz\u00ed \u201ealespo\u0148 n\u011bkdy\u201c. Jen\u017ee co je platn\u00e9, \u017ee se na v\u00e1s v obdob\u00ed adventu blahosklonn\u011b usm\u00edv\u00e1 \u010dlov\u011bk, kter\u00fd  v\u00e1m v lednu klidn\u011b podstr\u010d\u00ed t\u0159\u00ednohou \u017eidli?<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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Jenom\u017ee …  V\u00e1noce jsou sv\u00e1tky klidu a m\u00edru a my se MUS\u00cdME k sob\u011b chovat p\u011bkn\u011b! \u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n

Vlastn\u011b m\u011b na tohle zamy\u0161len\u00ed p\u0159ivedl p\u0159ed \u010dasem v\u00fdklad jedn\u00e9 pan\u00ed, kter\u00e1 proch\u00e1z\u00ed hlubokou man\u017eelskou kriz\u00ed. Prakticky m\u00e1 jasno.<\/p>\n

S man\u017eelem u\u017e b\u00fdt nechce.<\/p>\n

M\u00e1 \u017eenat\u00e9ho milence a vypad\u00e1 to, \u017ee se skute\u010dn\u011b maj\u00ed r\u00e1di.<\/p>\n

St\u00e1v\u00e1 se to.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Logicky se l\u00e1ska ned\u00e1 vynutit ani vyplakat, a kdy\u017e nen\u00ed, tak prost\u011b nen\u00ed. Je dob\u0159e si naj\u00edt jinou l\u00e1sku. Pokud \u010dlov\u011bk p\u0159\u00edmo netou\u017e\u00ed b\u00fdt s\u00e1m. I kdy\u017e s\u00e1m nen\u00ed tak zl\u00e9, jako b\u00fdt osam\u011bl\u00fd.<\/p>\n

Ona pan\u00ed mi pak \u0159ekla n\u011bco, co je v\u00e1\u017en\u011b k zamy\u0161len\u00ed, proto\u017ee nen\u00ed jedin\u00e1, kdo takto p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161l\u00ed.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u201eDohodli jsme se, (s t\u00edm milencem) \u017ee to \u0159ekneme doma po sv\u00e1tc\u00edch, abychom nekazili V\u00e1noce\u201c<\/em>, pov\u00edd\u00e1.<\/p>\n

\u201eTak\u017ee\u2026\u201c<\/em><\/p>\n

\u201eTak\u017ee po\u010dk\u00e1me do ledna\u201c, doplnila.<\/em><\/p>\n

\u201eTak\u017ee leden u\u017e jim zkaz\u00edte v pohod\u011b\u2026?\u201c<\/em><\/p>\n

\u201eNo o V\u00e1noc\u00edch by lid\u00e9 m\u011bli b\u00fdt p\u0159eci jen na sebe hodn\u00ed\u201c<\/em>, vysv\u011btlila mi.<\/p>\n

Zkou\u0161\u00edm si p\u0159edstavit, jak to asi bude vypadat.<\/strong><\/p>\n

To je jedno, t\u0159eba u toho milence.<\/p>\n

On se bude doma culit na man\u017eelku, rozbal\u00ed si d\u00e1rek, pove\u010de\u0159\u00ed, pak se mo\u017en\u00e1 budou koukat na televizi, nebo p\u016fjdou na m\u0161i\u2026 prost\u011b budou na sebe hodn\u00ed.<\/p>\n

\"1267561<\/p>\n

Ona si bude myslet, jak je v\u0161echno v pohod\u011b, a pokud m\u011bla p\u0159ed t\u00edm n\u011bjak\u00e9 pochybnosti, jist\u011b dojde k tomu, \u017ee u\u017e se vyjasnilo, v\u017edy\u0165 on se te\u010f chov\u00e1 tak mile. Prvn\u00edho, nebo druh\u00e9ho ledna, to je jedno, dostane tahle pan\u00ed takovou studenou sprchu, \u017ee se asi nesta\u010d\u00ed divit.<\/p>\n

Nemohu si pomoct, ale tohle je hergot p\u0159ece stra\u0161liv\u011b krut\u00fd!<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"1315642<\/p>\n

Vlastn\u011b ale hodn\u011b \u010dasto to sl\u00fdch\u00e1m, zvl\u00e1\u0161\u0165 v tuhle dobu:<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u201eAle no t\u00e1k, nechte si tohle a\u017e po V\u00e1noc\u00edch\u201c<\/em><\/p>\n

A pro tohleto, pro prakticky obdobn\u00fd model nem\u00e1m r\u00e1da klauny.  <\/strong><\/p>\n

V\u017edycky mi p\u0159ipadalo, \u017ee ten \u010dlov\u011bk se pod nakreslen\u00fdm \u00fasm\u011bvem m\u016f\u017ee tv\u00e1\u0159it a c\u00edtit jakkoli, \u017ee to, \u017ee se sm\u011bje, nemus\u00ed znamenat, \u017ee mu taky do sm\u00edchu je.<\/p>\n

\u017de t\u0159eba v\u016fbec nem\u00e1 r\u00e1d lidi. \u017de v\u016fbec nen\u00ed hodn\u00fd.<\/p>\n

Maska \u010dlov\u011bka nezm\u011bn\u00ed.<\/strong><\/p>\n

A strojen\u00e1, povinn\u00e1 laskavost nebo p\u0159edst\u00edran\u00e1 slu\u0161nost nen\u00ed ni\u010d\u00edm jin\u00fdm.<\/p>\n

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\u010clov\u011bk bu\u010f JE slu\u0161n\u00fd, nebo nen\u00ed<\/p>\n

Zn\u00e1m plno lid\u00ed, kte\u0159\u00ed o\u010dividn\u011b nemaj\u00ed r\u00e1di druh\u00e9 lidi.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Prakticky nejsou schopni o nikom \u0159\u00edct pozitivn\u00ed slovo a na v\u0161em, co druh\u00fd \u0159\u00edk\u00e1, c\u00edt\u00ed nebo d\u011bl\u00e1, hledaj\u00ed to hor\u0161\u00ed. Za ka\u017ed\u00fdm \u00fasm\u011bvem o\u010dek\u00e1vaj\u00ed fale\u0161, za ka\u017edou pomoc\u00ed zi\u0161tnost, za ka\u017ed\u00fdm \u00fastupkem pl\u00e1nov\u00e1n\u00ed odvety.<\/p>\n

Takov\u00fd \u010dlov\u011bk c\u00edlen\u011b p\u0159eprogramovan\u00fd o V\u00e1noc\u00edch na dobr\u00e1ka nem\u00e1 p\u0159ece \u0161anci cokoli na sv\u00e9m \u017eivot\u011b zm\u011bnit. \u017divot a osud bude v\u017edycky takov\u00fd k n\u00e1m, jac\u00ed budeme my k n\u011bmu. Lid\u00e9 se k n\u00e1m budou chovat podle toho, jak o nich sm\u00fd\u0161l\u00edme, proto\u017ee my\u0161lenka je to, co je up\u0159\u00edmn\u00e9 a ryz\u00ed.<\/p>\n

A jsou to pr\u00e1v\u011b my\u0161lenky a pocity, kter\u00e9 d\u00e1vaj\u00ed z\u00e1hy podobu na\u0161im \u010din\u016fm. A ty potom odr\u00e1\u017e\u00ed pocity, my\u0161lenky a chov\u00e1n\u00ed druh\u00fdch k n\u00e1m.<\/p>\n

Nept\u00e1m se, pro\u010d mi druh\u00fd ochotn\u011b pomohl.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Prost\u011b v\u00edm, \u017ee j\u00e1 zase p\u0159\u00ed\u0161t\u011b pomohu n\u011bkomu druh\u00e9mu, nebo jemu. A ne proto, \u017ee se to te\u010f slu\u0161\u00ed, ale jednodu\u0161e proto, \u017ee to chci ud\u011blat, \u017ee budu m\u00edt radost, pokud se n\u011bkdo bude c\u00edtit l\u00e9pe.<\/p>\n

Sta\u010d\u00ed se pod\u00edvat o\u010dima na sv\u011bt, kter\u00fd \u017eije ten, kdo n\u011bjak str\u00e1d\u00e1.<\/p>\n

Jak se ale c\u00edt\u00ed \u010dlov\u011bk, kter\u00fd ubli\u017euje druh\u00fdm? \u0160patn\u011b. A\u0165 u\u017e vypad\u00e1 jakkoli, c\u00edt\u00ed se \u0161patn\u011b. A nen\u00ed to \u0161\u0165astn\u00fd \u010dlov\u011bk. Jakmile tohle nech\u00e1me proj\u00edt vlastn\u00edm v\u011bdom\u00edm a pocity, pak nem\u016f\u017eeme doj\u00edt k ni\u010demu jin\u00e9mu, ne\u017e je soucit.<\/p>\n

Ten, kdo ubli\u017euje druh\u00fdm, s\u00e1m trp\u00ed. <\/p>\n

Je\u0161t\u011b jsem nevid\u011bla skute\u010dn\u011b \u0161\u0165astn\u00e9ho \u010dlov\u011bka, kter\u00fd by byl zl\u00fd.<\/strong><\/p>\n

A tak, bu\u010fme k sob\u011b slu\u0161n\u00ed a laskav\u00ed ne proto, \u017ee jsou sv\u00e1tky, ale proto, \u017ee je to na\u0161e vnit\u0159n\u00ed pot\u0159eba.<\/strong><\/p>\n

V\u011bnujme \u00fasm\u011bv zamra\u010den\u00e9mu \u010dlov\u011bku, ne proto, \u017ee je poplatn\u00fd datu, ale proto, \u017ee ho ten druh\u00fd t\u0159eba stra\u0161n\u011b pot\u0159ebuje.<\/p>\n

Proto\u017ee mu pom\u016f\u017ee.<\/p>\n

Nikdy toti\u017e nem\u016f\u017eeme v\u011bd\u011bt, co pr\u00e1v\u011b pro\u017e\u00edv\u00e1, na\u010d mysl\u00ed, co se mu p\u0159ihodilo.<\/p>\n

Nikdy nem\u016f\u017eeme v\u011bd\u011bt, na kolik jsme v ten moment schopni n\u011bkomu t\u0159eba zm\u011bnit \u017eivot, i kdyby t\u00edm, \u017ee ho rozesm\u011bjeme. Mimochodem, humorem m\u016f\u017eeme ud\u011blat velkou slu\u017ebu i sob\u011b. Sm\u00edch l\u00e9\u010d\u00ed a ud\u011blat si legraci z vlastn\u00edho probl\u00e9mu, znamen\u00e1 u\u010dinit ho sm\u011b\u0161n\u00fdm. A co je sm\u011b\u0161n\u00e9? To, co nen\u00ed ohro\u017euj\u00edc\u00ed. (v\u00e1le\u010dn\u00e1 satira by mohla vypr\u00e1v\u011bt).<\/p>\n

Pokud tohle p\u0159ijmeme, bude pro n\u00e1s sv\u00e1te\u010dn\u00ed dobr\u00e1 pohoda, laskavost, \u00fasm\u011bv, humor, empatie a snaha pomoci ne ot\u00e1zkou V\u00e1noc, ale p\u0159irozenost\u00ed a celkovou podobou \u017eivota.<\/p>\n

\"902117<\/p>\n

A to je o \u0161t\u011bst\u00ed.<\/strong><\/p>\n

P\u0159eji v\u00e1m kr\u00e1sn\u00fd advent! :srdce: <\/strong><\/p>\n

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Michaela Kudl\u00e1\u010dkov\u00e1<\/em><\/p>\n

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Views: 975 V\u00e1noce! Budeme na sebe hodn\u00ed! Ch\u00e1pu, \u017ee se nab\u00edz\u00ed \u201ealespo\u0148 n\u011bkdy\u201c. Jen\u017ee co je platn\u00e9, \u017ee se na v\u00e1s v obdob\u00ed adventu blahosklonn\u011b usm\u00edv\u00e1 \u010dlov\u011bk, kter\u00fd  v\u00e1m v lednu klidn\u011b podstr\u010d\u00ed t\u0159\u00ednohou \u017eidli?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":11568,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11565","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-vztahy"],"aioseo_notices":[],"aioseo_head":"\n\t\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t