{"id":10820,"date":"2019-09-26T01:31:30","date_gmt":"2019-09-25T23:31:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/popelky.cz\/pokus_sablona\/?p=10820"},"modified":"2019-09-30T00:05:28","modified_gmt":"2019-09-29T22:05:28","slug":"svatebni-ritualy-proc-zenich-nesmi-pred-obradem-videt-nevestu-a-proc-prenaseni-pres-prah","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/popelky.cz\/verze7-0\/vztahy\/svatebni-ritualy-proc-zenich-nesmi-pred-obradem-videt-nevestu-a-proc-prenaseni-pres-prah.html","title":{"rendered":"Svatebn\u00ed ritu\u00e1ly. Pro\u010d \u017eenich nesm\u00ed p\u0159ed ob\u0159adem vid\u011bt nev\u011bstu? A pro\u010d p\u0159en\u00e1\u0161en\u00ed p\u0159es pr\u00e1h?"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Napadlo v\u00e1s n\u011bkdy, kolik pov\u011br a ritu\u00e1l\u016f existuje a dodnes se dodr\u017euje nap\u0159\u00edklad jen kolem svateb? O tom, \u017ee jsou v n\u00e1s n\u011bkter\u00e9 z nich velmi zako\u0159en\u011bn\u00e9 sv\u011bd\u010d\u00ed fakt, jak moc jsou aktu\u00e1ln\u00ed i mezi zap\u0159\u00eds\u00e1hl\u00fdmi pragmatiky a pragmati\u010dkami. <\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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Je\u0161t\u011b jsem nevid\u011bla nev\u011bstu, kter\u00e1 by se nestrachovala, \u017ee ji vyvolen\u00fd spat\u0159\u00ed d\u0159\u00edv, ne\u017e prob\u011bhne ob\u0159ad, nen\u00ed svatebn\u00ed kolony, kter\u00e1 by netroubila a nen\u00ed rozbit\u00e9ho n\u00e1dob\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Mo\u017en\u00e1 m\u011bn\u011b u\u017e ale v\u0161ichni v\u00edme, pro\u010d to vlastn\u011b d\u011bl\u00e1me.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Tak jako u mnoha jad\u00fdrek mnoha zvyk\u016f je i u t\u011bch svatebn\u00edch mo\u017en\u00e9 dohledat logiku a souvislost s realitou. Kdy\u017e ne tou sou\u010dasnou, tak rozhodn\u011b tou prad\u00e1vnou.<\/p>\n

Jsme p\u016fvodem pohan\u00e9 a tak\u00e9 drtiv\u00e1 v\u011bt\u0161ina t\u011bchto ritu\u00e1l\u016f m\u00e1 p\u016fvod u na\u0161ich pohansk\u00fdch p\u0159edk\u016f a jejich malebn\u00fdch boh\u016f  a celkov\u011b p\u0159\u00edv\u011btiv\u00e9 v\u00edry.<\/p>\n

Mimochodem, v\u00edte, \u017ee pohan\u00e9 uzav\u00edrali s\u0148atek na dobu \u201edokud l\u00e1ska trv\u00e1\u201c?<\/p>\n

P\u0159ijde mi to velice moudr\u00e9, pokrokov\u00e9 a von\u00ed to svobodou \"Smile\"<\/p>\n

Pokud se tedy pr\u00e1v\u011b chyst\u00e1te navl\u00e9knout snubn\u00ed prst\u00fdnek, pro jeho\u017e p\u016fvod bychom museli tak\u00e9 cestovat hluboko do minulosti, a pokud i vy, propadnete n\u011bjak\u00e9mu svatebn\u00edmu ritu\u00e1lu, o \u010dem\u017e nepochybuji, tak t\u0159eba se v\u00e1m bude hodit pov\u011bdom\u00ed, pro\u010d to, kter\u00e9 pravidlo vlastn\u011b dodr\u017eujete:<\/p>\n

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Pro\u010d nev\u011bsta nepe\u010de svatebn\u00ed kol\u00e1\u010de a nijak nepom\u00e1h\u00e1 p\u0159i pe\u010den\u00ed?<\/strong>  \u2013 Proto\u017ee by m\u011bla uplakan\u00e9 d\u011bti.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Pro\u010d z\u00e1voj? <\/strong> \u2013 Proto\u017ee nev\u011bsta zakr\u00fdv\u00e1 nos a \u00fasta, aby se nep\u0159ej\u00edcnost a z\u00e1vist i zl\u00fd duch do jej\u00edho t\u011bla nedostal.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Pro\u010d m\u00e1 m\u00edt nev\u011bsta ve svatebn\u00ed den v\u0161e nov\u00e9?<\/strong> \u2013  Jako symbol nov\u00e9ho po\u010d\u00e1tku.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Ale jednu v\u011bc p\u016fj\u010denou od \u0161\u0165astn\u00e9ho \u010dlov\u011bka?<\/strong> \u2013 Ritu\u00e1l podobnosti. Magie je polo\u017eena na vz\u00e1jemn\u00e9 p\u0159ita\u017elivosti v\u011bc\u00ed.  <\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Jednu v\u011bc starou <\/strong>\u2013 Symbol zachov\u00e1n\u00ed posloupnosti a tradice.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Pro\u010d se p\u0159i svatebn\u00ed hostin\u011b posazuje na kl\u00edn d\u00edt\u011b? <\/strong> \u2013  Aby bylo hojn\u00e9 potomstvo. Zase ritu\u00e1l synchronicity.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Pro\u010d si vkl\u00e1d\u00e1 nev\u011bsta do st\u0159ev\u00edce minci?<\/strong> \u2013 P\u016fvod je stejn\u00fd. V\u011bci se p\u0159itahuj\u00ed a p\u0159inese to novoman\u017eel\u016fm bohatstv\u00ed.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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Pro\u010d  by se sestry nem\u011bly vd\u00e1vat ve stejn\u00fd den?<\/strong>  \u2013 U\u017e na\u0161i p\u0159edkov\u00e9 v\u011bd\u011bli, \u017ee \u201ekdy\u017e dva d\u011blaj\u00ed tot\u00e9\u017e, nen\u00ed to tot\u00e9\u017e\u201c.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Pro\u010d st\u0159epy p\u0159in\u00e1\u0161ej\u00ed \u0161t\u011bst\u00ed?  <\/strong>\u2013 Tady nejde tak docela o st\u0159epy, ale o hluk, kter\u00fdm  se odh\u00e1n\u011bj\u00ed zl\u00ed duchov\u00e9. <\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Pro\u010d ten, kdo vykro\u010d\u00ed od olt\u00e1\u0159e pravou nohou, bude vl\u00e1dnout v dom\u00e1cnosti ?<\/strong>\u2013 Lev\u00e1 strana je stranou \u017eensk\u00e9 energie a vody. Prav\u00e1 pat\u0159\u00ed ohni, s\u00edle a mu\u017esk\u00e9 energii, je v\u016fd\u010d\u00ed.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Pro\u010d kdy\u017e p\u0159eb\u011bhne cestou z ob\u0159adu p\u0159es cestu kot\u011b, budou m\u00edt novoman\u017eel\u00e9 \u0161t\u011bst\u00ed ?<\/strong>\u2013 Ml\u00e1\u010fata v\u0161eobecn\u011b byla na\u0161imi p\u0159edky pokl\u00e1d\u00e1na na symbol hojnosti. Chovali zv\u00ed\u0159ata a narozen\u00ed ml\u00e1\u010fat znamenalo v\u017edycky dobr\u00e9 v\u011bci, dostatek potravy a podobn\u011b.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Pro\u010d by \u017eenich nem\u011bl vid\u011bt svou vyvolenou ve svatebn\u00edch \u0161atech p\u0159ed ob\u0159adem? <\/strong>\u2013 \u0160lo o ritu\u00e1l nevhodnosti p\u0159edch\u00e1zen\u00ed ud\u00e1lostem \u2013 vezme\u0161 v\u00edc, ne\u017e m\u00e1\u0161 v tu chv\u00edli.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Pro\u010d trouben\u00ed klakson\u016f p\u0159i j\u00edzd\u011b autem? <\/strong> \u2013 Brali se v p\u0159\u00edrod\u011b, zpravidla na kraji lesa. B\u011bhem ch\u016fze tam i zp\u00e1tky lid\u00e9 v pr\u016fvodu cinkali zvone\u010dky, chrastili d\u0159\u00edvky a podobn\u011b. To v\u0161echno proto, aby odehnali zl\u00e9 duchy a chudobu, aby negativn\u00ed jevy nen\u00e1sledovaly man\u017eele do jejich nov\u00e9ho p\u0159\u00edbytku. Ze stejn\u00e9ho d\u016fvodu se vyr\u00e1b\u00ed z\u00e1v\u011bsn\u00e9 zvonkohry do byt\u016f \u2013 zlo nem\u00e1 r\u00e1do cink\u00e1n\u00ed.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Mimochodem \u2013 p\u016fvodn\u00ed \u00fa\u010del \u0161perk\u016f, \u0159et\u00edzk\u016f n\u00e1ramk\u016f a n\u00e1u\u0161nic je d\u0159\u00edve, ne\u017e okrasn\u00fd pr\u00e1v\u011b tenhle.<\/span><\/p>\n

Pro\u010d maj\u00ed novoman\u017eel\u00e9 j\u00edst p\u0159i svatebn\u00ed hostin\u011b z jednoho tal\u00ed\u0159e?<\/strong> \u2013  Jde o ritu\u00e1l spolupr\u00e1ce, pospolitosti a vz\u00e1jemn\u00e9 pomoci.  <\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Pro\u010d m\u00e1 \u017eenich nev\u011bstu p\u0159en\u00e9st p\u0159es pr\u00e1h nov\u00e9ho domu? <\/strong>\u2013  D\u0159\u00edve lid\u00e9 v\u011b\u0159ili, \u017ee zlo a negativn\u00ed s\u00edly se usazuj\u00ed pod prahem domu. Do nev\u011bstiny dlouh\u00e9 sukn\u011b by se mohlo snadno n\u011bco z toho dostat do domu. Tak proto. Tady vlastn\u011b u\u0161et\u0159ili pr\u00fd pr\u00e1ci Domovn\u00ed\u010dkovi. (jist\u011b si pamatujete, psali jsme si o n\u011bm).<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Na pr\u00e1h se tak\u00e9 pokl\u00e1dal chl\u00e9b a ml\u00e9ko<\/strong> \u2013 To bylo ur\u010deno pro dobr\u00e9 duchy, aby domov chr\u00e1nili a stali se nov\u00fdm p\u0159\u00edchoz\u00edm p\u0159\u00e1teli.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Pro\u010d \u201csvatba v m\u00e1ji, nev\u011bsta na m\u00e1ry?\u201d<\/strong> \u2013 Oby\u010dejn\u00e1 zku\u0161enost. \u017dena zpravidla ot\u011bhotn\u011bla hned po svazku a miminko tak p\u0159ivedla na sv\u011bt v zim\u011b, co\u017e bylo velice zat\u011b\u017euj\u00edc\u00ed, kdy\u017e si uv\u011bdom\u00edme, jak slo\u017eit\u00e9 podm\u00ednky k \u017eivotu na\u0161i p\u0159edkov\u00e9 m\u011bli.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Pro\u010d r\u00fd\u017ee, kterou h\u00e1z\u00ed svateb\u010dan\u00e9 na novoman\u017eele, symbolizuje plodnost?<\/strong>  \u2013 Nebyla to jen r\u00fd\u017ee, mnohem \u010dast\u011bji to bylo jak\u00e9koli zrno \u2013 Zase podobnost.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

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Jejich rozko\u0161n\u00e9 uva\u017eov\u00e1n\u00ed pochop\u00edme l\u00e9pe, kdy\u017e si uv\u011bdom\u00edme, \u017ee nap\u0159\u00edklad o Beltinu lid\u00e9 nelenili a hromadn\u011b se \u0161li o p\u016flnoci pomilovat na pole. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Uk\u00e1zali tak tomu, co pro n\u011b bylo \u017eivotn\u011b d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9, jak je to s t\u00edm plozen\u00edm a v\u011b\u0159ili, \u017ee n\u00e1zornou uk\u00e1zkou a t\u00edm i podobnost\u00ed, pole l\u00e9pe\u201cpochop\u00ed\u201c, jak se m\u00e1 v nadch\u00e1zej\u00edc\u00ed sezon\u011b zachovat.<\/p>\n

V\u00edm na z\u00e1v\u011br o p\u00e1r kr\u00e1sn\u00fdch ritu\u00e1lech, kter\u00e9 pokl\u00e1d\u00e1m za velmi mil\u00e9 a tak\u00e9 je na nich vid\u011bt, \u017ee pohan\u00e9 zdaleka nebyli \u017e\u00e1dn\u00ed tupci, a \u017ee dob\u0159e v\u011bd\u011bli mnoh\u00e9 o jednot\u011b, pozornosti i nutnosti vn\u00edmat jeden druh\u00e9ho.<\/p>\n

B\u011bhem oslav si musel \u017eenich nev\u011bstu poznat.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Mlad\u00e9 \u017eeny se od hlavy k pat\u011b zakryly kusem l\u00e1tky a poklekly.  Jedin\u00e9, co sm\u011bly uk\u00e1zat, byla prav\u00e1 dla\u0148. Novoman\u017eel pak musel jen podle tvaru ruky a pohmatem poznat svou \u017eenu. Ne\u0161lo o \u017e\u00e1dn\u00fd trest a nebyl v p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b ne\u00fasp\u011bchu za pitomce, nebo se na n\u011bho nesn\u00e1\u0161ela \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e1 kletba. Prost\u011b se v\u0161ichni dob\u0159e bavili.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nev\u011bsta zase pozn\u00e1vala sv\u00e9ho vyvolen\u00e9ho podle v\u016fn\u011b jeho ko\u0161ile.<\/strong> Byla mezi dev\u00edti mo\u017en\u00fdmi. A to to v\u016fbec nem\u011bla snadn\u00e9, proto\u017ee se v \u017eertu nev\u011bst\u011b podstrkovali svr\u0161ky nap\u0159\u00edklad jej\u00edho bratra, aby byla v\u016fn\u011b zn\u00e1m\u00e1.<\/span><\/p>\n

Vida, u\u017e pohan\u00e9 v\u011bd\u011bli cosi o tom, \u017ee lid\u00e9 k sob\u011b \u010dichaj\u00ed a \u017ee dva si prost\u011b mus\u00ed von\u011bt.<\/span><\/p>\n

Na z\u00e1v\u011br bu\u010f spole\u010dn\u011b zasadili plodn\u00fd strom,<\/strong> nebo si z n\u011bjak\u00e9ho darem a pruhem l\u00e1tky, u\u010dinili sv\u011bdka a p\u0159\u00edtele z \u0159\u00ed\u0161e p\u0159\u00edrody.<\/span><\/p>\n

K takov\u00e9mu stromu pak chodili obnovit svou l\u00e1sku ka\u017ed\u00fd Beltine a cel\u00fd rok o n\u011bj pe\u010dovali.<\/span><\/p>\n

Symbolika je tu jednak v sep\u011bt\u00ed lid\u00ed s p\u0159\u00edrodou, a jednak byla tohle je\u0161t\u011b p\u0159ed p\u0159\u00edchodem d\u00edt\u011bte prvn\u00ed v\u011bc, za kterou se stali odpov\u011bdn\u00ed, a o kterou museli spole\u010dn\u011b pe\u010dovat.<\/p>\n

No, jestli to nen\u00ed roztomil\u00e9\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n

M\u011bjte kr\u00e1sn\u00fd den!<\/strong><\/p>\n

Michaela Kudl\u00e1\u010dkov\u00e1<\/em><\/p>\n

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Views: 1020 Napadlo v\u00e1s n\u011bkdy, kolik pov\u011br a ritu\u00e1l\u016f existuje a dodnes se dodr\u017euje nap\u0159\u00edklad jen kolem svateb? O tom, \u017ee jsou v n\u00e1s n\u011bkter\u00e9 z nich velmi zako\u0159en\u011bn\u00e9 sv\u011bd\u010d\u00ed fakt, jak moc jsou aktu\u00e1ln\u00ed i mezi zap\u0159\u00eds\u00e1hl\u00fdmi pragmatiky a pragmati\u010dkami. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":10825,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10820","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-vztahy"],"aioseo_notices":[],"aioseo_head":"\n\t\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t